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Quick question insha'Allah.

I understand that PM's across genders are often checked.

But how about those between sisters?

WassalamuAlaykum
 
If they are checked then why do they call them private?
 
Kasim said:
If they are checked then why do they call them private?
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Because unlike some forums the admins of this board feel they have a responsibilty to make sure nuthin dodgy goes on, and rightly so IMO
 
Sahabiyaat said:
why is this such an issue?
does anyone have anything to hide anyway?
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Not really ^^

But I dont think PM's sent between sisters should be checked. That level of privacy should be allowed IMO
 
JσℓιєFℓєυя;1005757 said:
Not really ^^

But I dont think PM's sent between sisters should be checked. That level of privacy should be allowed IMO
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agreed.
 
and That level of privacy should be allowed ,THE privacy between what two brothers pm each other
 
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JσℓιєFℓєυя;1005757 said:
But I dont think PM's sent between sisters should be checked. That level of privacy should be allowed IMO
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Ditto. :X

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Why wud they check peoples pms:s. Whether it's between a bro n sis or sis to sis. Thats a breach of privacy and very awkward to say the least.

Nothing dodgy happens? That's really weird. We already have 2 angels to watch over us. n Spying is forbidden in Islam.

But verily, over you (are appointed angels) to watch you, Kiraman (honorable) Katibin writing down (your deeds), they know all that you do.) (82:10-12)
 
Why wud they check peoples pms:s. Whether it's between a bro n sis or sis to sis. Thats a breach of privacy and very awkward to say the least.
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To ensure the safety of members, and there have been instances in the past where the feature had been abused. Also you get random psycho's online who like to bother sisters we wanna keep the likkle ones safe

Nothing dodgy happens? That's really weird.
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Things happen.

We already have 2 angels to watch over us.
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Unfortunately the Kiraaman katibeen never stopped people sinning did they?

Spying is forbidden in Islam.
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Na'am, Laa tajassasu....Do not spy on one another, yet these are precautions mods take
 
I disagree.

I dont believe that they will stop anyone from sinning. You give people naseeha but spying on them and reading their privacy is very disrespectful to me. The prophet ( saw) didnt do this practise.

If u say they check it, thats already spying and like easdropping which is not permitted in Islam.

It wud be nice if a Mod replied.
 
Yanoorah said:
I disagree.

I dont believe that they will stop anyone from sinning. You give people naseeha but spying on them and reading their privacy is very disrespectful to me. The prophet ( saw) didnt do this practise.

If u say they check it, thats already spying and like easdropping which is not permitted in Islam.

It wud be nice if a Mod replied.
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With all due respect sis, I dont think forums existed in the Prophets time

I hope I'm not wrong btw, the last I heard PM's were moderated

And if mods see frequent PM'ing activity between a bro and a sis I feel they have every right to check whats going on. Since the ultimate responsilbilty of what goes on in the forum lies with the mods.

Khayr, I dont make the rules. I'm happy with them though.
 
Ahmedjunior said:
'psycho's'



Very nicely put
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Akhee I'm very sorry but let me just say now....you arent one

Lol basically you get some people and the mods do deal with them, but alhamdulillah I dont know (m)any
 
I don't think it is possible for the staff to read anyone's PM's on these type of forums, there's no such function. But i may be wrong, i have seen a Module which gives the admin this permission.
 
moabubaker said:
I don't think it is possible for the staff to read anyone's PM's on these type of forums, there's no such function. But i may be wrong, i have seen a Module which gives the admin this permission.
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I think they must have that module then since I'm sure they can. Wallahu A'lam. Akhee whats with MN?

I hope this thread actually gets somewhere :exhausted
 
What u feel is ur opinion sis, and I dis agree with u. There is nothing wrong between a sister and a brother pming. People don't always have bad intentions. I believe that u are taking this argument a bit personal since (if I am not mistaken) it was u who started a thread solely Calling that we shud stop all gender pms (as u put it).

Wat 2 adults discuss in private is their business and none of anybodys including me.

If we have lil kids here younger then (14) I wud understand if mods checked due to safety. The rest is spying, dont sugar coat it.
 
To be quite honest I'm not in the mood of having this argument. I'm fasting. If you have a problem take it up with the mods insha'Allah. I just want my question answered.

JazakAllah khayr
 
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