Arguing parents

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How often do your parents argue?

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The Ruler said:
I am the eldest amongst my siblings. And if anything, it is always me that has to fix things. I did that the time before the last time. And by doing that I found out that getting involved is more disgusting than not getting involved. Being the eldest and having youger siblings is much worse, because at times like this, they expect something from me I can't give.

Ignoring what's happening is something that can't just be done. I find my refuge is manga/anime and my conscience. Perhaps you ought to find something that can take your mind off things?

If you don't mind me asking, how old are you? Sometimes I can handle my parents' argueing now, knowing that next year or a year after, I won't be seeing this anymore. It keeps me going. =]
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to be honest I found my refugee in memorizing Quran and here in LI, looking around here and seeing how some people are struggling to find the true path is make my problem to me nothing, it make me always grateful that I am in better situation than some people who have more problems than me.....
Alhumulilah I am doing a good progress in memorizing so far all thanks to Allah, so this make feel better.....I always have this verse in my mind
"but it is possible that ye dislike a thing which is good for you,"
I am 21

but even though, please pray for me, I have some hard times with my parent
 
Have you ever tried talking to either of your parents, telling them how you feel about their arguing all the time? Maybe if u said something to them it could help?
 
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My mother passed away now, Rahimahaa Allaah, but I don't recall ever seeing my parents argue. And they'd only ever speak of each other in praise and grattitude. Al-Hamdulillaah, that was a really blessed environment to grow up in.
 
Faizah said:
And they'd only ever speak of each other in praise and grattitude. Al-Hamdulillaah, that was a really blessed environment to grow up in.
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Alhamdulilah that is so true. When parents argue it is really stressful for the children to witness
 
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agree.....

they are made my life like a hell......and always argue for the most stupid and silly reasons in the world....and its me who always the victim since I am the only daughter living in the home with them

may allah guide them to the right path one day, especially my father
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cant you somehow talk to them? or get someone else to? help them to realise thier mistakes, etc... please have patience with them. don't ignore them, they clearly need some kinda help, innit :) ummm....be paitent when with the whole taking sides thingee, and try just take each day as it comes, as each matter as its thrown at you. this whole life is about tests and trials, in one way or another we are bound to be tested in matters we dont like. face the music when you need to...just have sabr and make dua.

they're your parents, your're their daughter, treat the situation with much delicacy. as so not to let one think that you are taking sides with another (even though you may not be, but this is how none-the-less they'll take it...)

sorry if anything has been repeated, i havent read all posts :-[
 
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My parents are divorced. >_< So I guess I don't need to answer this question...
 
Even if my dad makes mom angry my mom never argues with him,my dearest mom is really tolerant person, I wish I could be like her
I miss my mommy,I am studying far away from home :(
 
My parents are constantly arguing. I do dua to ALLAH(SWT) that he guides and that they are good to each other. MashaALLAH my dad is a very good man, he prays 5 times a day and he puts up with a lot. I do dua that my mum comes on to the right path. Sometimes I think that my dad is super-human, the amount that he has put up with. Nevertheless they are both my parents and InshaALLAH I will continue doing dua for them and that they stay happy.
 
Every single day, mostly over money.
In the car, at home thats why I don't go anywhere with them.
With 5 younger siblings, it gets quite frustrating , Its been going on since I was 6/7 probably from before but my memories are from that time on. I mostly ignore it, unless it gets physical at which point I try to break it up or prevent it as much as I can.
 

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