Be Easy with The Lovers!

i think because he was such a religious/learned person,and so much respect was given to them, the guy took advice really seriously.
 
إذا لم يجد صبراً لكتمان سره **** فليس له شيء سوى الموت أنفع
If he is unable to be patient with concealing his secret
Then there is nothing for him except death that will benefit!
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Subhanallah...indeed true love is deep...
 
Abu Sayyad said:
Personally, I think he died of grief because of the second to last line, but I don't think it would have mattered either way...
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You really think it wouldn't have mattered? Allah knows best. The whole story is very touching, subhanAllah... JazakAllah kheyr for sharing!
 
Al-Zaara said:
You really think it wouldn't have mattered? Allah knows best. The whole story is very touching, subhanAllah... JazakAllah kheyr for sharing!
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Barakallah Feekum. I don't know..I think it's inconsequential how he died..the point being that he died out of love. I mean we know that suicide is forbidden...so I think either way the point is 'incorrect advise to a person deeply in love --> really bad things can happen'. Allaah knows best..
 
True in many ways but sometimes love can destroy and a parent who oversees that will only seek to destroy it before it destroys their child... An understandable act of love and defence. But yes sometimes love can be good for us and whether we like it or not, some types of love just aren't ever meant to benefit us.
 
Thanks for the story.
It's really worrying though, as previously mentioned that parents don't communicate with their kids appropriately and just give orders and expect complete obedience (Not all parents)
And definitely, when giving advice one should always take into account the situation and give advice accordingly as opposed to making life seem black and white...
I feel sad now.
 
dont feel sad, im sure Allah forgave him, and then made the girl die too so they are can live in Jannah happily ever after. :D

or maybe Allah gave him a few hoors and he forgot all about her. :D
 
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jazakallahu khair...

but what really buffels me about some people who are in love is when one of them dosnt have an interest in the other, but he/she still want to be with them, even though the other person doesnt want to be with them. i dont get that...i would have thought that if its unrequited, it would have been easier for the person to move on...
 
if the moral of the story is that we should be cautious when giving advice, then i believe the guy killed himself.

also, 'keeping the secret' and 'attaining her' are so not the same thing....what?
 
Wow, that's a great lesson to learn and use in our own life's. I know there may be times we say something to someone that we could have said in a better way.

Thanks for sharing with us..

Jazak Allah Khair
 
the story sounds doubtful, a few lines of poetry and the guy dies on a rock or whatever
oh well..
love is an undefinable concept for the most part, rather companionship and respect are more important for a relationship to survive.
 
the story sounds doubtful, a few lines of poetry and the guy dies on a rock or whatever
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AssalamuAlaykum

He was 'heartbroken', in a great deal of emotional pain...Wallahu A'lam.

love is an undefinable concept for the most part, rather companionship and respect are more important for a relationship to survive
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True.

WassalamuAlaykum
 

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