Greetings and peace be with you Scimi my friend,
I have always admired your faith and trust in Allah, and I am reminded that your faith comes from Allah, because he chooses whom he wills. You are being called to be the best Muslim you possibly can.
I am also being left with the thought that the Jews are God's chosen people, and they should strive to be the best they can. In Christianity, we are chosen by Christ, and we are also being called to be the best we can be. We are all stuck with our own beliefs, and I believe that truth is best served when we use it to change ourselves, rather than to change others.
The confusion seems to be that this is all coming from the same God. The bottom line for me is, how do we get on with each other despite our perceived differences. We are never going to agree on the resurrection of Jesus, but we can agree that the same God hears all our prayers. The world problems are the same for you and me, war poverty injustice, the breakdown of families, temptations, etc.
In the spirit of praying to 'One God'
Blessings
Eric