Can I marry twins

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We should also remember in this kind of matter not to blame men too much (if they finally marry only young virgins and forget widows). We have to remember that there might be strong social pressure from their relatives and the community they live, which prevent them to marry a widow (even if they would like to).
 
Bobbyflay23 said:
I think polygamy should be particularly for the really religious people who arnt using the women as a sexual object and also they actually know how to keep a stable relationship because now a days people want to divorce left and right and then everybody is having bad marriages and all that stuff I particularly think there's no wrong in it if both wives are completely okay with it if they don't care then that just leaves society to care I feel as if back then women didn't care about polygamy but then society intruduced the idea about how it's cheating and all that stuff yet as hamza said it's hypocritical fit just depends if both wives are okay with it and the man knows how to keep a stable relationship has the time and money and has his deen with allah why not I mean sure if the mans going out marrying the women behind her back in another country that's not okay or he says I will divorce you if you don't let me then that's not okay but like if both wives are cool with it it's perfectly fine also the whole polygamy thing i just realized it's technically not illegal because you can just get married through the state to one and then the other you can only get married through Islamic law so I mean it's fine
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yes,i agree, and if they are both good practising muslims
 
Bobbyflay23 said:
Actually when I first got the idea of marrying a second wife it was thinking it would be a widow or a divorcee that's like 8 years older then me because like they have a extremely hard time finding a new husband and end up really poor but either way it's not gonna happen I'm never gonna be that rich unless allah wills so I'm gonna stick to one plus it's illegal in America to marry for then one and it's allot of work like think about it I'd have to like take turns and all that stuff and I'd have to do all of the lovey and favor stuff for both sides which seems extremely tiring I don't know how he prophet (saw) would be able to have 11 wives I feel like it'd be so hard so idk I mean if I can and I feel like I have a allot of time I'd take a second as a widow or divorcee but when I do get married the first time I'm gonna get married to someone who's around as young as me maybe like 7 years older then me idk
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See thats okay. Your helping someone by getting married to them and its not for a totally superficial reason. That i can respect,if only more men who wanted second wives thought like you bro.
 
cinnamonrolls1 said:
See thats okay. Your helping someone by getting married to them and its not for a totally superficial reason. That i can respect,if only more men who wanted second wives thought like you bro.
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Well I mean my first wife is probably not going to be someone who's 14 years older then me or anything it's just if I get a second wife I'd be willing to follow the sunnah as for the first I don't care if she's a divorcee or widow if she's okay looking and is 6-7 years older then me max I'm fine with it but for like the second I'm allot more open and willing to follow the sunnah tbh realizing it polygamy isn't the only way to help people like that (divorcees and widows) it's just the best way to help people like that idk my point is I'm still close to other brothers with there thoughts on the 1st marriage but as for the second I'd be willing to do polygamy for like the real and original reason
 
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Scimitar said:
It is forbidden to marry two sisters at the same time - it's in Qur'an.

You can ask Allah on the day of judgement to explain !!!

Scimi
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Bro, I asked about the polygamy, not marrying two sisters at the same time. I know its my bad that I only used one word. [emoji851]
 

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