Convincing one's parent of chosen spouse.

[abdullah03]

May the peace, mercy and blessing of Allah be upon you.

I had already talk with my parent regarding my chosen spouse, however my mother bombarded me with accusation of the person that I chose without proper investigation and verification.That my chosen spouse is a potential person who use black magic, that she like to pretend, that she is a queen control without *talking to my chosen spouse family or her friend. I swear by Allah, I done my best to convince my parent to set up a formal meeting with the family before throwing such accusation. However I wasn't able to do so. I explain to my parent that please do not jump to conclusion and wanted to explain to them properly. However they ignored and see me as a person who is being brain washed. Nauzubillah.I feel like this is a biased decision from my parent. Please help me, I want to obey my parent, however this seem unfair and lack of justice. Please advise me on how should I move forward?

Should I seek a senior help like from my elder uncle or untie Should I continue to convince my parent and ask to give an opportunity to met my chosen spouse before making assumption?

I appreciate any advises as I am motivated to do the right thing...

 

[BeTheChange]

Asalamualykum,

Ask your parents how they have come to this conclusion?

Who did they speak to and does that person have an agenda with this individual?

I think as you suggest a meeting with your potential spouse family would be excellent to remove all doubts or to verify the doubts.

May Allah swt guide you in your decision Ameen.

 

[azc]

Yes, talk to your uncle and other close relatives if your not able to convince your parents