[kit91]

Is it cultural appropriation to wear the thobe or a long kurta as a revert male. I know there are no specific cloths outlined for men the way there is for women. How do you feel about me wearing cloths like the kurta or thobe to cover better?

 

[bintabdulnoor]

It is sunnah to wear thobes/qamees as Umm Salamah (رضي الله عنها) said, "The garment that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) loved most was the qamees." [Abu Daawood and At-Tirmithi]

 

[kit91]

It is sunnah to wear thobes/qamees as Umm Salamah (رضي الله عنها) said, "The garment that the Messenger of Allah (ﷺ) loved most was the qamees." [Abu Daawood and At-Tirmithi]

I like long kurtas that come to the top of the knee or to the bottom of the knee are they sunna or just thobe/gamees?

 

[bintabdulnoor]

Kurtas belong to the same category of Qamees.

For more benefit: https://www.islamweb.net/en/fatwa/354991/wearing-qamees-is-a-recommended-sunnah
With regard to the short qamees worn by our Muslim brothers in Asian countries, then it also belongs to the same category of qamees,

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[kit91]

self conscious about my tattoo

I had a religious full sleeve tattoo blacked out to cover the image of an angel. My right arm is blacked out and i'm embarrassed and think it will affect who I'll be able to marry. I might be able to have it removed and would be willing to try, to open my marital options up. It will probably scar a little from the lazer but I'd rather have the scar. I want a traditional looking hijabi that would also make a good mother. She can work or stay home or work from home as long as she's there for the children I'd like to have. I don't expect her to be perfect. She is aloud to have a past and have had mad some mistakes or been non-practicing as long as she wishes to practice and be devout now. I'm to ashamed to approach a muslim woman with this ugly mess on my arm. how do I find some confidence? How do I deal with her family with this literal black mark?