Define friendship

[greenhill]

That is sad.

Even our prophet (saws) who had Allah watching over him and Gabriel beside him still needed companions. May you discover and develop good friends in the future..


Peace :shade:

 

[Seekingtruth]

So true and a great way of explaining

 

[Seekingtruth]

Is that honestly the truth maybe you haven't met the right people but these people that have hurt or wronged you just make you wiser and you will know who your real friends are, sometimes bad things happen for the better

 

[ardianto]

I have ever written that one thing that make grateful in my life was easiness that I got when I was looking for life-partner. But now I think I must add one more, easiness to get friends.

Actually I am introvert person and tend to quiet, but I could familiar immediately with someone who I just met. It made me have many friends.

How I got friends can be described like this. "A" is my friend. Then he introduce me to "B". Immediately I am being close with "B". Then "B" introduce me to "C". I am being close with "C". Then "C" introduce me to "D".

Yeah, if you expect a friend who always be with you and never leave you, indeed, I am not the right choice.

I have moved from one circle of friends to other circle of friends from varius background. If I felt enjoy, I could stay longer, if not, immediately move again. But I think my friends did not mind with this. They never emotionally dependant on me.

 

[M.I.A.]

sounds like heaven.




mine is just people hitting each other everytime they open there mouths.

or everytime someone tells the literal truth rather than the present truth.

and in such a place one would rather not have friends.

or maybe they have judged me on some crime i have committed.

 

[Ansariyah]

A good friend in Islam is someone who reminds you of Allah when you are with them and when you are wrong they correct you in private.

Someone who is just, gentle and knows how to listen and understand.

 

[ardianto]

sounds like heaven.

But that's happened on earth.

Basically, if we are able to be a friend for someone, there's must be someone who will be our friend.

mine is just people hitting each other everytime they open there mouths.

or everytime someone tells the literal truth rather than the present truth.

and in such a place one would rather not have friends.

Few of my friends were coming from environment like this, even my wife was coming from environment like this too.

But you still could choose your friends, actually.

or maybe they have judged me on some crime i have committed.

Oh, bro, there was a time when I was not good boy.

There are always people who do not mind with our past.