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Hello my friends, i always think i am bad girl, i do good help to people but always in my mind i imagine God does not like me,,, please help me, i am thinking about dying myself, thank you
 
Woah nonono! Pls get help if you're suicidal. I cannot stress this enough!! And yes i do. But Allah is merciful, he forgives and he knows our intentions. I advise you seek professional help if ur suffering from depression or are feeling suicidal. Also try surat ad duha, very comforting!
 
Thanks for answering me, i really know God is very big and attention me, but i think i can not decide good way, and all day i think my incide go to bad way, but i do good things, when i was chield i imagine i will be professor...many good goals, but now i think in my life i neved do any good work, same a famous person, good person, do you know when you had good goal but now you are not a good person...good action that can help people...i am in master degree, but all days and all seconds i feel i am not any big person, any good action...i really feel bad and i need to speak with other muslims in the world, so i searched about it and found here, please help me if you can or if you have time, thanks more
 
You are achieveing things sister- just by studying at uni you're achieving things! You can message me anytime if you want sister, im here for you.
 
Yes i had very tired for it, i studied more, really tried, i arrived but i think in my heart is important more, i never be a relax and calm days, i always had stress about things, because in my life i never had any family around myself, they were bad and cut with my parent...we always were alone, when my friend tolld hi my aunt or hi my sister or my ancle, i really feel pain because never i had not them in my life, just once in year, but about 9 years, nobofy come to my house, i know these are not enough reason for jealus or,,,but it is hard, do you know, it is hard and past life effect on future...i fear about future, ah i think i never can feel good, God help me
 
Marzieh said:
Hello my friends, i always think i am bad girl, i do good help to people but always in my mind i imagine God does not like me,,, please help me, i am thinking about dying myself, thank you
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Same problem. I allways think I am not good and beautiful or smart enough or that Allah will not forgive me or my desteny is hell allahfed. I allways think a am nothing.
 
You suffer from weak eman and weak mental fortitude. I suggest studying more on the deen to help put things in perspective for you.

Says Allah in a Hadith Qudsi:---

"I am as My Servant thinks I am,
I am with him whenever he remembers Me; if he thinks of Me,
I think of him; if he mentions Me in a gathering, I mention him in
a gathering even better than it.

If he draws near Me a hand's span, I draw near to him in an arm's length; if he draws to Me an arm's length, I draw closer to him by 2 arms length; and if he comes to Me walking, I go to him running." [Bukhari and Muslim].


This Noble Hadith tells us of the speed at which Allah Ta'ala changes a person's reality as He remembers Him. Because Allah has no need of/to travel, He does not have a body and isn't in creation, when He says "I go to him running", this refers to shaping man's perception of Allah, meaning 'I shape his reality quickly'. The more a person comes to Allah by Remembering Him (by various forms of Zikr), the faster Allah changes his perception towards good.

In this connection, the Prophet, Sallallahu alaihi Wasallam, said: IHSAN (human perfection) is to worship Allah as if you see Him, which is the highest form of worship. And in the Holy Qur'an, we have read it that:--

"He is with you, wherever you are" (57:4)
"And We are nearer to him than his jugular vein" (50:16)
 
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Same problem. I allways think I am not good and beautiful or smart enough or that Allah will not forgive me or my desteny is hell allahfed. I allways think a am nothing.
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Marzieh said:
Hello my friends, i always think i am bad girl, i do good help to people but always in my mind i imagine God does not like me,,, please help me, i am thinking about dying myself, thank you
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When you are a Muslimah, it means that Allah swt likes you. Eeman is the most beautiful blessing of Allah swt showered upon us....... Shun the negative views about yourself.
 
Ah really thank you dear friend, those are true, i am reading Quran, but i think inside me is black and reading Quran can not help, but God is kindly, God promise us come to him, i hope he change it and i will be good
 
I think i am a bad person but I can't thought that my Allah dislike me because a bad person also his creative and he hi kind on his creative he forgive our error if we apologize him.
 
Marzieh said:
Ah really thank you dear friend, those are true, i am reading Quran, but i think inside me is black and reading Quran can not help, but God is kindly, God promise us come to him, i hope he change it and i will be good
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Rasulullah (sallallahu alayhi wasallam) said:“The hearts too become corroded(by means of sin). Its polish is istighfaar.”(Baihaqi)
 
Ah yes you right, God is merciful, thank you really, sometimes we want to came back but cant, but justwe can go on with all hard in way that we are going through

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Excuse me, is there any good group in telegram that insteed muslims there and helpful ?thank you so much

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Excuse me, is there any good group in telegram that insteed muslims there and helpful ?thank you so much
 
unfortunately ,there is little commitment in muslim communities and mosques to discuss teen issues,depression anxiety,politics ,parenting etc.

as a parent of 3 late teen children and 1 older,ive dealt with a lot .
hope i can help.
i am 50 years old .so may spend some time on this forum to help.
 
The word "Allah" is all about Love. He love us more than 70 mothers... Many people suggest you good things. So i hope you will feel better. Good wishes and stay healthy...
 
It is a matter of despair and guilt, but it should not be considered selfish. Allah has made us a fool. He has also told us how to repent and that God loves His servants very much.
 
when we are down, or life doesn't treat us fairly we can all fall into the negative voices, often that come from outside, what we often refer to as waswas.. happends to each and everyone of us... and what supports is what your doing, do a kindness.. very simple, think good of yourself, as someone has said what you ahve achieved, and in your heart know Allaah is always showing how much He is there for us... when you are doing kindness that is His mercy.. people here who have been kind and given concern and care to your situation, also is a sign of Allaahs mercy, when we recognise what to look out for and remind, the voices in time lessen, as your building your inner self and creating a positive attitude towards your relationship with Allaah.. you have done very well with little support from family, should be proud of yourself, that in itself shows you have a strong determined character.. what your soul is seeking is nurturing, the warmth of a human being.. which often comes from the guise of friends, family, strangers, colleagues, and all this comes most importantly from Allaah.. pray to Him to send around you good people..