Does there have to be love between husband and wife?

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Love between the spouse and the wife is something regular. It can't be said concerning a wonder such as this that it is compulsory as per sharee'ah, or that Islam orders it; rather in such issues, what could be achieved normally is adequate and there is no requirement for a religious content to charge it.
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He said: I do not love her.He said: Are all families based on love only? What about care and decency? (‘Uyuun al-Akhbaar, 3/18).What this means is: bear with patience any annoyance from your friend and your wife, for people in general face similar situations with their wives and their friends as you do, but they may stick together even though they are not entirely happy with one another and do not love one another, but the need that each of them has for the other keeps them together!Through care and compassion, the members of a household show mercy to one another, and each of them is aware of his duty towards the others. Out of a sense of decency, each of them refrains from being the cause of separation or of the family collapsing. Think about the words of Allah, may He be exalted
 
Is it essential to wash away dirt under the nails when doing wudoo’?

I have a couple of inquiries with respect to wudu. what is implied by when washing the face it should be done from "ear to ear" does it mean where the highest point of the ear associates with the head going towords the face so includein a portion of the side consumes? if you don't mind clear up likewise while wipeing the ear does the whole ear must be wiped front to back becuase the ear and on my foot toe nail of the nail is normal enormous and if solidly on the skin would it be a good idea for me to experience the nail with a thin question permit water through without torment? Likewise is washing undet button required? Is this hadeeth solid?- Anas (RA) portrays that the Prophet (SAW), when he made wudu, used to grasp a modest bunch of water and enter it beneath his button and rub it through his facial hair and stated, "This is the thing that my Lord - the Great and Exalted - has requested me to do." (Sahih - Abu Dawood, Al-Baihaqee, Al-Haakim) And finnnaly how can one recount the earth on his hand or something will forestall water. would be decent if all inquiries can find clear solution please so I can move far from questions amid wudu.
 
If someone does not believe in the Last Day, no faith or righteous deeds will benefit

Acclaim be to Allah Confidence in the Last Day, and what is associated with it of confidence in Paradise and Hell, is one of the six mainstays of confidence. Whoever does not put stock in any of these six columns is a skeptic in Allah and will stand always in Hell; no upright deeds will profit him and on the Day of Resurrection no mediator will have the capacity to help him.
Allah, may He be exalted, says (interpretation of the meaning):“The Messenger has believed in what was revealed to him from his Lord, and [so have] the believers. All of them have believed in Allah and His angels and His books and His messengers, [saying], ‘We make no distinction between any of His messengers.’ And they say, ‘We hear and we obey. [We seek] Your forgiveness, our Lord, and to You is the [final] destination’”
 
Are all families based on love only? What about care and decency? (‘Uyuun al-Akhbaar, 3/18).
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probably it means, you may not love our wife,but you promised to live with her.what about that promise? what about your children? what will they do? where will they go? you can't just leave your wife alone only because you don't love her.think about her sacrifices. she left her family and living with you,now you are saying that you want to leave her who have left everything for you? shame on you.
 
Suzauddaula said:
Love between the spouse and the wife is something regular. It can't be said concerning a wonder such as this that it is compulsory as per sharee'ah, or that Islam orders it; rather in such issues, what could be achieved normally is adequate and there is no requirement for a religious content to charge it.
The poet said:
He said: I do not love her.He said: Are all families based on love only? What about care and decency? (‘Uyuun al-Akhbaar, 3/18).What this means is: bear with patience any annoyance from your friend and your wife, for people in general face similar situations with their wives and their friends as you do, but they may stick together even though they are not entirely happy with one another and do not love one another, but the need that each of them has for the other keeps them together!Through care and compassion, the members of a household show mercy to one another, and each of them is aware of his duty towards the others. Out of a sense of decency, each of them refrains from being the cause of separation or of the family collapsing. Think about the words of Allah, may He be exalted
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(the Prophet sallallaahu `alayhi wa sallam ( may Allaah exalt his mention )) said: “Marry women who are loving and very prolific, for I shall outnumber the nations (on the Day of Resurrection) by you [by your abundant number] (musnad ahmad)
 
If you want to 'Love' something Love God, then your mother but dont be fooled.

Its not going to be Bollywood love, or the Titanic love, thats just glamour in the movies, people who have that live in a make believe world.

In this world as per islam your role is to fulfill relationships, the requirements or rules for that relationship are defined in the quran and hadith.

So go by quran, not by modern rules, for example quran says man is in charge of the family, for a good reason as Allah knows best, but these days as the women have equal rights and may earn more than their male partners they will assume that then they are in charge. But being in charge has NOTHING to do with money otherwise the tramp who just won the lottery would be president of your country.

So back to love, what is love, do you know what it is? does quran define love? so dont pay attention to the meaning of the word but look at whether you treat that person as the quran says you should.
 
Suzauddaula said:
Love between the spouse and the wife is something regular. It can't be said concerning a wonder such as this that it is compulsory as per sharee'ah, or that Islam orders it; rather in such issues, what could be achieved normally is adequate and there is no requirement for a religious content to charge it.
The poet said:
He said: I do not love her.He said: Are all families based on love only? What about care and decency? (‘Uyuun al-Akhbaar, 3/18).What this means is: bear with patience any annoyance from your friend and your wife, for people in general face similar situations with their wives and their friends as you do, but they may stick together even though they are not entirely happy with one another and do not love one another, but the need that each of them has for the other keeps them together!Through care and compassion, the members of a household show mercy to one another, and each of them is aware of his duty towards the others. Out of a sense of decency, each of them refrains from being the cause of separation or of the family collapsing. Think about the words of Allah, may He be exalted
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and shaytan is extremely pleased if couple separate
 

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