Don't Speak ill of your Wife!

[Khalid Saifullah]

It is mentioned, there was a villager who divorced his wife.

People went to enquire the reason for his divorce.

He said:"I have given her one talaq,and she is still in my nikah,if I take her back during her iddat (waiting period),and if i am going to open to you her faults,how will it be possible to take her back???

They waited till her iddat was over,and they returned to the villager with the same question.

He said:"if I open up her faults to you;how will it be possible for her to find a suitable person to get married to???

As soon as she remarried, these people were back again at the villagers door with the same question.

The villager replied : " how can it possible for me to tell you about another man's wife,destroy her reputation and honour,whilst I'm a stranger to her??

SUBHAANALLAAH!!

True example of how husband and wife should behave!

 

[BeTheChange]

Alhamdulilah.

I would love it if more people were to respond like this or think like this.

And it's a very honourable and admirable trait if someone stays quite even after divorce. Subhana Allah.

We are keen to cover our own faults but are eager to reveal the faults of our brothers and sisters.

May Allah swt save us from our tongue Ameen.

 

[ardianto]

I think the right thread title is "Don't speak ill of your EX-wife".

 

[BeTheChange]

Or in general 'Don't speak ill of anyone'

Speak good or remain silent. That's the best one.