My fiancee has been having trouble with the fasting, and now she says that she doesn't want to be Muslim anymore, and that she doesn't believe in it and doesn't think it is the truth. This has made me extremely sad and hurt and it means that we probably can't get married.
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But how come ? :-\
talk to her gently and ask her why she feels this way. If its the fasting that she finds difficult, tell her that she doesn't have to do that. Islam is an easy religion, she doesn't have to start doing all the rituals at once if she feels she can't.
Keep by her side n just be understanding and supportive. Maybe she wasn't ready for the change n she'll come round eventually.
u are both going to get through this together insha'Allaah, because u entered it together. n Allah knows your situation more than we do, He's up there watching n He will definitely help u. so don't despair or be sad.
Please make du'a that she will return to the truth of Islam and that we can get married.
Allah descends to the lowest heaven when a third of the night remains, saying : "Who is supplicating to Me that I may answer him ?
who is asking of Me that i May give him ?
Who is seeking forgiveness of Me that i may forgive him ?" [Sahih al-Bukhari]
so brother, during this time especially, you must pray for her and yourself and we also will pray for u both insha'Allaah
because Allah the All-Merciful, the All-Compassionate, has promised that He will reply to a believers supplication and
He who is far from imperfection does not break His promises.
It is Also the Month of Ramadan, and the nights of this Blessed Month are not like ordinary nights either. n neither are the days like ordinary days.
May Allah give us all the Tawfeeq to wake up and pray for u both.
Because when two people who love each other accept Islam together and get married, it is a very beautiful thing. n what is half an hour of sacrificing our sleep to stand up and supplicate to Allah, who is the controller and changer of hearts, to keep u both steadfast on the true deen so this beautiful marriage can take place and we can all be happy Allah willing.
Du'a can even change a persons destiny.
May Allah keep u both on the right path, make it easy for u and make u both husband and wife who are content and Happy with each other. Ameen
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