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[Yanal]

Asalam Alaykum Warakmatulah Wabarkatuh
All I have for you is a Hadith. The prophet (PBUH) said "Whenever a man and women are alone the devil makes the third. just remember this Hadith and may you be protected from all kinds of fitnah.

 

[anonymous]

and yet ppl find it hrd to understand tht humans r not perfect,n strangely enough for u,some wil try to solv their problems step by step whether thts throo internet or w/e

hv sum respect. ur post did nothing.

My post was a reflection of my own past.

Some may try to give you the world's advice in these situations, when they remain sinning in the very thing you ask of.

The truth is, you will always be tempted no matter what, you won't be deterred after listening to a few dating horrors. The strength comes from Allah, when He places the fear in our heart.

Anon.

 

[Donia]

I highly doubt that you are going to get exactly what it is you are looking for. I don't think anybody is going to admit that they have had girlfriends and now they regret it. You have gotten some good advice. It seems like you are leaning towards just staying away and I think that would be a good idea of course. If you are around her in situations you can't control, then lower your gaze. Don't look at her and if you can leave, leave. Ignore shaytan. He is probably putting these thoughts in your head. I know you're curious about her and that's natural but it's best to just leave it alone since you have said it's not possible to get married. Sometimes it's easy to do the things that are bad for us and harder to do what's right. If you are still in doubt, then pray about it.

 

[anonymous]

DELERE PREVIOUS POST PLEASE!

no it wont, this thread should be closed now, you have been given choices by various of peoples now

It up to you now bro , JUST DO THE RIGHT THING!

look,insha'Allah i will do the rite thing.... if u ctually read my posts i said i just want that lil extra first hand experience from sum1..if i dont get it then fine,but the thread shall NOT be closed cuz the point/want of the thread hasnt been received!!!!!

We are all pious brothers here, and people dont want to tell their sins.

iv definetly read first hand experience of this in the past,but i cant seem to find it on search engine so ther we go.plz,ur not in my position,try n understand.

Asalam Alaykum Warakmatulah Wabarkatuh
All I have for you is a Hadith. The prophet (PBUH) said "Whenever a man and women are alone the devil makes the third. just remember this Hadith and may you be protected from all kinds of fitnah.

yes iv seen that b4. thanks.

My post was a reflection of my own past.

Some may try to give you the world's advice in these situations, when they remain sinning in the very thing you ask of.

The truth is, you will always be tempted no matter what, you won't be deterred after listening to a few dating horrors. The strength comes from Allah, when He places the fear in our heart.

Anon.

hm,thanks.

I highly doubt that you are going to get exactly what it is you are looking for. I don't think anybody is going to admit that they have had girlfriends and now they regret it. You have gotten some good advice. It seems like you are leaning towards just staying away and I think that would be a good idea of course. If you are around her in situations you can't control, then lower your gaze. Don't look at her and if you can leave, leave. Ignore shaytan. He is probably putting these thoughts in your head. I know you're curious about her and that's natural but it's best to just leave it alone since you have said it's not possible to get married. Sometimes it's easy to do the things that are bad for us and harder to do what's right. If you are still in doubt, then pray about it.

thanks v much. yes,i think i'l pray about this insha'Allah..gd idea....