[evangel]

Enter a quick yes if you have ever been involved in or have been a witness to hard and difficult family issues. A bitter disagreement kind of thing.

 

[mlsh27]

yes

 

[evangel]

Let me clarify here, I'm not needing help, I just want to know how many of you have dealt with a difficult situation such as this.

 

[Malaikah]

odd question :? why dont you just add a poll?

 

[evangel]

Thanks, I'm New to these forums and didn't realize that was an option

 

[Abdul Fattah]

Maybe moderators could add one. (a poll that is)
Cuold you be more precise in your questioning? I mean every family has some issues right, what one person might consider "bitter and hard" could be considered casual to someone else.

 

[evangel]

The kind of falling out where no one is speaking to one another, no forgiveness

 

[Abdul Fattah]

ok
And what is you purpose for inquiring about this, if you don't mind me asking?
I answered yes btw

 

[afriend]

yes for sure.....It's a fact of life......:rollseyes......

But the key to it is to remain calm (something I can never do) and to make sure that you do not insult a person or be disrespectful to anybody who is older than you..... I can never do these things, so I'm saying that you should keep these 2 points in mind and you will surely be successful during the arguement.....Also, do not raise your voice.

 

[firdaw]

yes

 

[mujahedeen2087]

i would be supprised to find sme one that never has

 

[Helena]

yeah...been in dat situation few times.....like bro iqram sed to remain calm, and speak calmly and quietly to each other to remove the barrier...if not approached..problems arises....and simply hate each other.....just a test and to learn from da mistake that has been done....never take this appraoch again..remain silent.....

 

[Fishman]

Do'h! I voted yes by mistake! can somebody change it back? Please?

 

[mano_the_cat]

yes yes .... i have many many times ... but its hard to be quite if other people are making false aligations against you!

 

[Fishman]

yes yes .... i have many many times ... but its hard to be quite if other people are making false aligations against you!

:salamext: Mano, I'm glad your back!
Unless you count the controversy about me reverting to Islam, I haven't been involved in a feud and don't want to.

 

[mano_the_cat]

oh wow.... you are glad at me being back:statisfie
by the way i wasnt gone at all :giggling:
i didnt hear any controversy like that about you ... but my dinner can be a very big controversy

 

[Fishman]

oh wow.... you are glad at me being back:statisfie
by the way i wasnt gone at all :giggling:
i didnt hear any controversy like that about you ... but my dinner can be a very big controversy

You probably didn't hear it because it happened at home, which is thousands of miles away from yours, if I'm correct.

Don't worry, it's passed now, and I will be a Muslim very soon, Insha'Allah!

 

[mano_the_cat]

thats very nice to hear ....
its good that you live far away or it would be life-threatening for a fish to be glad for a mano to be back :giggling:

 

[Kittygyal]

oh Mono welcome back nice to have you back missed ya but welcome

 

[mano_the_cat]

thankyou ... you are one cute mano ... wana be friends? we can catch fishes together & have fish parties