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My mom is saying no ghusl for Saturday and Sunday [if I have a wet dream before Fajr] because she thinks I'll start coughing and it'll affect my asthma.

What can I do? I'm stuck in this hard situation and I can't get out of it My parents are saying I'm driving them nuts because of this argument.
 
Aaqib said:
My mom is saying no ghusl for Saturday and Sunday [if I have a wet dream before Fajr] because she thinks I'll start coughing and it'll affect my asthma.

What can I do? I'm stuck in this hard situation and I can't get out of it My parents are saying I'm driving them nuts because of this argument.
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There is no obedience in disobedience to the creator. If it happens then do ghusl on bthe sly if you must it's not like she can physically force you to not nake ghusl



Dont stay in the shower too long tho just do what you must and get out



allahualam
 
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Assalaamu alaikum Aaqib,

Mmm... I don't know your exact age or family situation. But it seems to me that if you have health issues, and your mother (and from what you said, it seems that your father agrees with her) is concerned about your health, that perhaps it might be wiser to listen to her and take advantage of the rulings that if doing your ghusl is harmful to your health, that you may do tayammum instead, until your health improves (which from what you said should be soon).

May God, the Generous, Grant you a swift recovery from your acute sickness, and Help you to find the optimal ways of dealing with your chronic sickness.
 
I went with my mom and I did Tayammum, I guess I'll go with it. Thanks both of you
 
Assalaamu alaikum Aaqib,


(smile) I hope you are feeling better.

Might I suggest that the next time you see a doctor (preferably a Muslim doctor who could understand where you are coming from), that you discuss how best to deal with your health in these situations? I think this would not only help you know how best to deal with them, but also comfort and show your parents that you are willing and able to take responsibility for yourself. You might also want to look into different ways that you can keep your asthma under better control (identifying and avoiding triggers, using the appropriate medicine, desensitization...).


(smile) May God Bless you and your caring family.