Assalamu-alaikum,
Bro Ardianto:
May Allah (subhanawataála) make this trial easy on you and your wife.
And may it be a means of drawing ever nearer to our Rabb and elevating your ranks in the Aakhirah.
Ameen.
There is wisdom behind everything that Allah plans for us Akhee.
Perhaps, by informing others of the lessons that you and your wife have learnt......you may be the means of changing the course of someones elses life, by the will of Allah.....
With regards to alternative therapies:
Im completely with sister منوة الخيال on this one.....
Unfortunately, it becomes a 'them' (conventional medicine practioners) vs 'us' (naturalists) debate.....which it need not be.
At the end of the day, both schools of practioners are seeking whats best for the patient, through the qoedrat of Allah (subhanawataála).
The fact is that science/ medicine is an imprecise field.
It is based on trial and error.....and while many available treatments may not afford cure (esp if instituted late in the course of disease), the best outcomes for the patient are then sought.
In the case of cancer - this would be disease-free years, trying to balance the benefits of therapy to their side-effects.
If a proponent of natural therapy - whatever it may be (accupunture, herbs, reflexology, light-therapy, reiki, etc etc) can provide EVIDENCE (in the form of a randomised, placebo vs therapy trial) that supports their claims, then the entire world would surely sit up and pay heed.
Even the most 'indoctrinated' western-schooled doctor will be prepared to give it a chance.
Because we all sincerely, only want whats best for the person who is afflicted with a life-threatening condition.
Unfortunately, I am yet to see anyone step up to this type of challenge......
So, until such evidence becomes evident, I suggest putting your faith in what is known, or what has been revealed to the prophet (sallalahu alaihi wasalam).
If need be, seek alternative care in conjunction to this (not in isolation).
And seek guidance from Allah.
When it comes to matters of ones health/ life ---- no chancers please.
:wa: