*Sarah~Algeria*
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Last year my family and I went to Algeria for our summer holiday and went to Beach for 2 weeks. I met my cousin which I haven't seen him for a long time.
Later few days he came to me and told me how beautiful I am and then he start crazy about me. He forces me to be his girlfriend by grabbed my hands. I thought he is very crazy in love with passion. Everywhere I went, he followed me. I went to toilet and he followed me and waiting for me the outside especially I went to beach with my sister and he followed me on the beach and told me that I have to be his girlfriend or he will shout very loud that I am his girlfriend. I told my older sister about it she was so angry and shouted at him. He was cried but he still forces me again, again and go on. I told him that my mum will be so angry if she has heard you. Once, my older sister and my cousin asked me if I would love to come with them to walk on the beach.
So he join us either, he were kept staring at me and then he walked next to me and force to hold my hands. I told him that you don’t care that everyone looks at us and even worse my mum saw us. But he doesn’t care. We returned to home and then my older sister told me not to tell my mother what happened on the beach but I obviously cannot because I told my mum everything and she is my MOTHER. :><:
I feel so depress. I told him that I came to Algeria to visit my families and not for him. He even cannot let me go. We slept over at my aunt’s for few days and he always visited us non-stop and slept over as well. My aunt thought he came to see us but realise he is very obsession of me. My older sister said just ignores him because he is my cousin but he overheard us. Furthermore, I told my cousin that it is OK we are relatives but he is not allowed to force me into relationship with him before (I know it is haram in Islam) he then asked me to marry him but I refused because I feel no ready and he was getting so mad. We were outside the house; he said he would shout at people on the street that he wants to marry me. I told him my mother is behind me and able to hear him (she obviously will talk to my dad about it and he might be not happy about it). He nodded his head and said he doesn’t care.
My family and I visited to other family from my mother’s side. He even followed me and visited my mother’s family. He is not part of my mother’s family and it was the reason was ME that he came. My grandfather began notice but my mother doesn’t want them to know. My mother doesn’t want me to tell my father because he is part of his family or he will having a big argue with his sister because of him.
In the evening, this day was my last day before we left Algeria, my sister, my cousin, him and I was at kitchen. We just chatted as we were very close but he is change since he was a kid. He kept staring at me till the early of morning, I told my sister that I was so tired and I wanted to go to sleep but he force me to stay awake. My sister told me to stay for a while because he thinks I made a centre of attend but I was not. He forces me to stay so I firmly walk off.
So I forgive him but I am worry if I come back to Algeria for holiday in the future and seeing he force me again or he might done something too far with me. I pray to Allah to forgive me for everything and forgive him what he has done too.
I just want to know what Allah (S.W.T) would say? What is your suggestion about it? Might Allah bless you all.
Last year my family and I went to Algeria for our summer holiday and went to Beach for 2 weeks. I met my cousin which I haven't seen him for a long time.
Later few days he came to me and told me how beautiful I am and then he start crazy about me. He forces me to be his girlfriend by grabbed my hands. I thought he is very crazy in love with passion. Everywhere I went, he followed me. I went to toilet and he followed me and waiting for me the outside especially I went to beach with my sister and he followed me on the beach and told me that I have to be his girlfriend or he will shout very loud that I am his girlfriend. I told my older sister about it she was so angry and shouted at him. He was cried but he still forces me again, again and go on. I told him that my mum will be so angry if she has heard you. Once, my older sister and my cousin asked me if I would love to come with them to walk on the beach.
So he join us either, he were kept staring at me and then he walked next to me and force to hold my hands. I told him that you don’t care that everyone looks at us and even worse my mum saw us. But he doesn’t care. We returned to home and then my older sister told me not to tell my mother what happened on the beach but I obviously cannot because I told my mum everything and she is my MOTHER. :><:
I feel so depress. I told him that I came to Algeria to visit my families and not for him. He even cannot let me go. We slept over at my aunt’s for few days and he always visited us non-stop and slept over as well. My aunt thought he came to see us but realise he is very obsession of me. My older sister said just ignores him because he is my cousin but he overheard us. Furthermore, I told my cousin that it is OK we are relatives but he is not allowed to force me into relationship with him before (I know it is haram in Islam) he then asked me to marry him but I refused because I feel no ready and he was getting so mad. We were outside the house; he said he would shout at people on the street that he wants to marry me. I told him my mother is behind me and able to hear him (she obviously will talk to my dad about it and he might be not happy about it). He nodded his head and said he doesn’t care.
My family and I visited to other family from my mother’s side. He even followed me and visited my mother’s family. He is not part of my mother’s family and it was the reason was ME that he came. My grandfather began notice but my mother doesn’t want them to know. My mother doesn’t want me to tell my father because he is part of his family or he will having a big argue with his sister because of him.
In the evening, this day was my last day before we left Algeria, my sister, my cousin, him and I was at kitchen. We just chatted as we were very close but he is change since he was a kid. He kept staring at me till the early of morning, I told my sister that I was so tired and I wanted to go to sleep but he force me to stay awake. My sister told me to stay for a while because he thinks I made a centre of attend but I was not. He forces me to stay so I firmly walk off.
So I forgive him but I am worry if I come back to Algeria for holiday in the future and seeing he force me again or he might done something too far with me. I pray to Allah to forgive me for everything and forgive him what he has done too.
I just want to know what Allah (S.W.T) would say? What is your suggestion about it? Might Allah bless you all.
