Found naked pictures of my to be sister in law on my husbands work computer

[anonymous]

I've by chance discovered pictures and videos of my sister in laws naked (well they're not married yet she's been his GF for almost a year now) on my husbands work computer. Some of these pictures and videos are explicit. They've been downloaded from snapchat. Looks like he may have access to my brother in laws snapchat and that's how he's downloaded them. I've not approached my husband with this and I don't know if I should. I feel really hurt and disturbed. Surely, this isnt right even if it is downloaded by mistake? He should have immediately deleted them. I also just don't like how his behaviour is towards her. He's a bit too free with her if you know what I mean. A bit extra calling her nicknames which is not right. I've never said anything in the past because if I say anything he's always has a defence and calls me jealous or extreme.

Can I please get some advice as to what I should do?

 

[xboxisdead]

One. Mind your own business.

 

[A.R.BRahimbaksh]

I've by chance discovered pictures and videos of my sister in laws naked (well they're not married yet she's been his GF for almost a year now) on my husbands work computer. Some of these pictures and videos are explicit. They've been downloaded from snapchat. Looks like he may have access to my brother in laws snapchat and that's how he's downloaded them. I've not approached my husband with this and I don't know if I should. I feel really hurt and disturbed. Surely, this isnt right even if it is downloaded by mistake? He should have immediately deleted them. I also just don't like how his behaviour is towards her. He's a bit too free with her if you know what I mean. A bit extra calling her nicknames which is not right. I've never said anything in the past because if I say anything he's always has a defence and calls me jealous or extreme.

Can I please get some advice as to what I should do?

Assaalam alaykum ,

First ,is he treating you badly ?. Or is it effecting your relation ?.

If not .then you should be quiet . because sometimes what we see isn't the truth .
I know you have seen it yourself. But actually everything have two sides .we can't judge a picture from one side .always try to see the both sides .
Maybe what you are thinking is not the truth.maybe.........
If it is something which you are thinking then these pictures must have been hidden. They should not be in his work computer. If really what you are thinking is the truth so you have never seen these pictures .it can be coincidence.but I don't think so .
You should talk to him if you have an issue.
But don't misunderstand anyone by one side . If they are effecting your relation then you should talk to him . Believe is the first condition of the relation.
It is my opinion.
Be patient.
If have told something bad or any word of mine hurst you .I am extremely sorry.please forgive me.
Jazaki Allahu khairen

 

[HomeyGirly]

Everyone in the thread is wild, not only is that haram, but the question is, does your sister in law know this was taken and recorded? You said it could be from the brother in law, why is he sharing her videos or even recording them? This is predator behavior and everyone saying mind your own business is messed up. Bring it up and also investigate and talk to your sister in law, from what you gave me she could be the vicitim. And your husband is cheating bruh

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Everyone in the thread is wild, not only is that haram, but the question is, does your sister in law know this was taken and recorded? You said it could be from the brother in law, why is he sharing her videos or even recording them? This is predator behavior and everyone saying mind your own business is messed up. Bring it up and also investigate and talk to your sister in law, from what you gave me she could be the vicitim. And your husband is cheating bruh. And you have a obligation to forbid wrong fyi and your duty to allah is before everything else.

 

[HomeyGirly]

Also wasnt this in ramadan? you might want to rethink who you're spending the rest of your life with habiti.

Your spouse and you should bring each other closer to allah, pray tahajud together, the fardh salats, learn knowledge together, learn and memorize quran together, read the translation and reflect upon the quran and signs of allah together. A righteous spouse is the dream spouse. read about how the prophet was to his family, what you want and need is a spouse who mimicks and follows him. brings his sunnah and ways of life to life.