[AnonymousPoster]

My husband and I do not see things the same, which causes problems and arguments almost everytime we speak. I am unable to voice my thoughts as these differ to his and therefore are wrong. There were times where I was the wrong solely by being a horrible wife and not fulfilling my duties, I have now become more calm and do as I'm told or do as I should, but the thing that keeps affecting me, is that all this is done not out of love but just to save the stress off arguing 24/7. I don't know what to do, I have been at the stage where I want to leave him, but deep down know that is not possible.
I do 80% of everything he says and one day if I feel like saying something else or doing something my way, its an issue and he says oh so we will have to do things your way all the time. I try explaining to him all the time, its all about compromize and we both should listen to each other, once I xplain this, he says sorry but only until another day where it all happens again.
Now that I am becoming better towards him, he ends up picking on other things that I supposedly dont do and should..

I want to be a wife out of love not becos I have to.. i get sooo frustrated at times, and feel empty....

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

you should talk to him about this.


honestly you should...

 

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The key thing to a good husband wife relationship is friendship. Try and establish a friendship with him first. Sit down and talk about it inshaAllaah.