[AnonymousPoster]

i feel so mentally drained and warn out. i feel that there may something physically wrong with me, like an illness but i dont really seem to be exhibiting any real symptoms i just feel tired and lethargic a lot of the time and cant seem to get out of bed but im not sure if that really counts for anything as i tend to be a sleepy head anyway. my mum thinks it may have something to do with the fact that i eat dinner late (10pm) but i have been eating at that time for a while and didn't feel like this before. i cant get my life together seriously it is so difficult to be motivated and get the things that i want to accomplish, accomplished. im intending on taking this course where i can teach/tutor English, but i cant see myself being a teacher. i mean, i would be really keen for it initially, and being a teacher is my thing and all, but after a while i can see myself being demotivated imsad i just like to do things at my own pace. i think what might be the cause of my demotivation and whats holding me back is that maybe im too scared of commitment becuase everything that i want to get accomplished involves some type of commitment in one way or another and i guess i chicken out becuase commitment takes time and effort and as i said i just like to take things at my own pace. what i want is out of my reach as well. i just generally feel like rubbish and nothing really seems to be going my way. im emotionally dying my heart feels clasped no one even cares i dont really know what the point of this thread is, i just need to get things off my shoulders imsad.

 

[desert winds]

i am sorry you feel like nobody cares, but i care- imnot kidding.
it sounds to me as though you seem depressed- maybe something has happened which resulted in this? maybe you would like to speak to the samaratans, you can find them ongoogle and keep contact via email also another thing if you are a muslim your masjid maybe able to help you-
maybe you should also speak to your doctor- he will prescribe you some anti depressants, try to go out and forget whateve is in your mind e.g i usualyy dispose of things whihc remind me of a particular painful event- do that you will feel free from the pain in a way- and also take up a hobby dont rush in to teaching if you feel like your not motivated- give yourself time to think things through-
and also sometimes bad things happen to us but its for the best.
i hope i have helped you in someway- i wish i could know more and i wish i could send you a private message but i cant!
maybe in someway a downside to this site?

 

[Hamza Asadullah]

i feel so mentally drained and warn out. i feel that there may something physically wrong with me, like an illness but i dont really seem to be exhibiting any real symptoms i just feel tired and lethargic a lot of the time and cant seem to get out of bed but im not sure if that really counts for anything as i tend to be a sleepy head anyway. my mum thinks it may have something to do with the fact that i eat dinner late (10pm) but i have been eating at that time for a while and didn't feel like this before. i cant get my life together seriously it is so difficult to be motivated and get the things that i want to accomplish, accomplished. im intending on taking this course where i can teach/tutor English, but i cant see myself being a teacher. i mean, i would be really keen for it initially, and being a teacher is my thing and all, but after a while i can see myself being demotivated imsad i just like to do things at my own pace. i think what might be the cause of my demotivation and whats holding me back is that maybe im too scared of commitment becuase everything that i want to get accomplished involves some type of commitment in one way or another and i guess i chicken out becuase commitment takes time and effort and as i said i just like to take things at my own pace. what i want is out of my reach as well. i just generally feel like rubbish and nothing really seems to be going my way. im emotionally dying my heart feels clasped no one even cares i dont really know what the point of this thread is, i just need to get things off my shoulders imsad.

Asalaamu Alaikum Wr Wb, It could well be a medical condition. Sounds like one of the signs of diabetes. But whatever you do go and see the doctor immediatley and get some blood tests done. Also you should stop eating that late because it is not good for anyone to eat too late as it may cause laziness especially in the mornings.

You should eat between 6 and 7 and don't eat a heavy meals. Try to have lighter evening meals.

Another reason why a lot of us get demotivated and lazy is because we are shackled in our own sins. So we should try to refrain from sin as much as we can and ALWAYS repent to Almighty Allah sincerely no matter what.

You should also try to join Islamic classes so that you can learn as much as you can about Islam as knowledge is vital and without it we will remain lost and confused.

There may also be other factors causing you to be like this but firstly i would urge you to go to the doctors and take things from there and get back to us with what the doctors have concluded.

Here are some very useful and beneficial links for you to look at and i have also attached a very beneficial article 'The disease of laziness and overcoming' which will help all of us overcome this disease inshallah :


25 Ways to Deal with Stress and Anxiety VERY GOOD THREAD



http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=43179



Overcoming laziness and Procrastination



http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=52097



Overcoming tests from Allah



http://www.turntoislam.com/forum/showthread.php?t=61961



10 Steps to Increasing our Iman(Faith)



http://www.islamicboard.com/manners-...man-faith.html (10 Steps to Increasing our Iman(Faith))



Signs of Weak Iman and How to Increase It



http://www.missionislam.com/knowledge/weakimanfix.htm


Forty Very Easy, Quick & Rewarding Good Deeds for all of us to do Everyday!

http://www.islamicboard.com/worship-...-everyday.html (Forty Very Easy, Quick & Rewarding Good Deeds for all of us to do Everyday!)


VERY Rewarding Nafl Salaahs we can Pray Everyday!


http://www.islamicboard.com/worship-...-everyday.html (VERY Rewarding Nafl Salaahs we can Pray Everyday!)


My Daily Ibadah(worship) check


http://www.islamicboard.com/manners-...hip-check.html (My Daily Ibadah (worship) check!)

The translation of salat (namaz)- learn what your reading in namaz



http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=38303


A party in Paradise, A party in Hellfire



http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=39698



The Ultimate Motivation for Muslims



http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=49243



The State of the People of Paradise in this World



http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=49125


Major Signs before the Day of Judgement


http://www.inter-islam.org/faith/Majorsigns.html


Signs before the Day of Judgement


http://etori.tripod.com/dajjalsystem/judgement.html



The Life of this World and the Hereafter


http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=51739


Beautiful Description of Paradise in Islam


http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=51707


Practising az-Zuhd in the Dunya


http://www.sunniforum.com/forum/showthread.php?t=51738



Everything about Prophet Muhammad (Pbuh)



http://www.mohammad-pbuh.com/

DOWNLOAD ATTACHED ARTICLE BELOW 'The disease of laziness and overcoming it'

 

[Binyamine]

Peace Mercy And Blessing of Allah be upon all of us.

Dear brother, think that you should go to bed more early, since sleeping at night is really very important. And set expectations which you can satisfy.

Think that brother Hamza81 has given all that were needed. Jazakallah khairan brother Hamza81.

 

[Caller الداعي]

may Allah cure u and give u happiness and success in this world and the next!!!!!!!

 

[tango92]

get up for tahajjud salah - commit some time to reading quran everyday, that will soften your heart a bit and break the laziness inshallah