I hate my Family.

:sl: You are most welcome........... I just felt pain as i read your reply......... We all feel lonely at times.......... I feel lonely most times and the i remember Allah.......... May Allah Bless you with his Rehmat also Ameen.:w:
JolieFleur said:
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JazakAllah khayr sis.

Its not a similar situation as such, its just that I think we all feel at loggerheads with our families at one point or another. Its a part of growing up. May Allah (swt) bless you sis. Ameen :)
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I coming from a non muslim family and my husband coming from a very muslim family, my mother went crazy, I heard for alongtime how I would goto hell and people would talk about me, but I stuck to my guts and married him anyway, not saying to do as you please, but in my case it was the best thing i have done in a very longtime. If not for my husband would I not be learning about islam. I have not taken my shaddah and reverted to islam as of yet, however, everyday mashallah I get closer.

My mother now loves my husband very much (she says) but still thinks i'm going to hell, where's the love? lol
 
The Khan said:
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Every parent has a different view of things. For example, my father tells me that I should get a girlfriend and that he had his first when he was 13. -_-;;

Just follow your heart. Many, if not most people, have a problem with their family.

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sounds like my mom=x she says i should really be looking for a good boyfriend=x
 
if you believe that what your attitude is the right one and you don't want to have a boy friend there i sno need to hate anyone because people especially parents always think that they know what is best for their kids no matter how old they are and you will know how your mother feels when you become one.It's in such time that our convictions are tested so who we should really look at very closely is ourselves and a reaction such hatred will show your mum that you are weak and lack confidence and that will make her keep asking you the same thing because she will believe in her chances to make you see clearly lol
be patient sister and know that it's all a test and if you are a muslim know that the prophet prayers of god upon his said ''all what happens to a muslims is good for him'' and god said '' god is with the patient '' nothing lasts in this life but it's just to show us if we true or false
i am sure you are a wise person and you can do much better than just to hate lol
 
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Be paitent with ypur family, I no its hard. As long as they do not stop you in practising your religion
 
I think that alot of people need to realise that when our parents say or do things, they are concerned for our own good, they have been through many hardships and tests and so they have much more wisdom and experience then we do. As long as what our parents ask us to do isn't against islam, we should try our best to listen and please them.
 

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