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is it wrong to sit next to the opposit sex on the bus/train?
ive always tried to avoid it.

but its like yesterday... on my way home from hammersmith, which is a bit of a journey... this boy came and sat next to me on the bus.. and since i was really tired and there were no other seats available, i didnt get up.
anways lookin back at it now, i feel kinda bad cuz whilst i was sitting next to him, his arm brushed pass mines a few times by accident.. and its been buggin me cuz i could have easily avoided that.
 
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I guess if you could avoid it then you shouldnt. But someitmes on their isnt any way out of this situation..it happens to me to:(
 
what about for a guy??


since my buses are usually crowded, so it doesnt matter for me... becuz even if i stand up i'd be standing next to a girl/woman :hmm:

women in numbers are increasing and outnumbering men! :eek:
 
Mainul_Islam said:
what about for a guy??


since my buses are usually crowded, so it doesnt matter for me... becuz even if i stand up i'd be standing next to a girl/woman :hmm:

women in numbers are increasing and outnumbering men! :eek:
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:heated: aNd that is a sign of *JuDgeMeNT DaY*** :X
 
ALhamdulilah, man I hope Isa comes already, peace be upon him, argh, whao nice to see someone from london, but anyhow, a brother was talkin to me aboutthis just today, he was just stating how a girl came sat next to him and he felt like moving but couldnt, but what he did was jus put a bag between their bodies.

He didnt give me no reference or proof or anything as such, but i admire his actions.
 
So Wht Abt A If A Major Of Da State Want To Shake Ur Hand, N Iam A Muslimiah, Wht Am I Suppose To Do??
 
well sister samina1 you can shake the hands of the major only if she is a woman otherwise you can refuse it and also stating that you are obeying the commands and laws of islam.
ok

salam
 
Mainul_Islam said:
what about for a guy??


since my buses are usually crowded, so it doesnt matter for me... becuz even if i stand up i'd be standing next to a girl/woman :hmm:

women in numbers are increasing and outnumbering men! :eek:
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:sl:

There is a punishment for men to touch the opposite sex

Men are punished for that in the hearafter

SaLaMz
 
But sometimes you cant actually do anything about the situation can you? Like once i was on the LRT in KL and it was crowded..we had to stand and there was a man standing next to me, really close and i couldnt move.
 
There's not much that you can do in those types of situations.

"Actions are indeed by intention"

This means that if you st next to some1 of the opposite sex intentionally then you will be held accountable for it, and vice versa.
 
aZn_pLayGurL said:
i aLWaYz Sut nxt 2 the opposite SeX on the bus :p haWwwW :p But i got no choice am not gna stand up :p
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Well sis it's better for you to stand up for the sake of Allah instead of sitting down and obeying the shaytaan. Also I don't think it's funny to joke about stuff like that... sorry if i seem rude:X!
:w::rose::peace:
 
No itz all good, but if itz a *MaJBooRi** then itz permissable :p nEways the guya shud have common sence 2 stand n let the ladies SiT :p
 
Fenix-Angel said:
Well sis it's better for you to stand up for the sake of Allah instead of sitting down and obeying the shaytaan. Also I don't think it's funny to joke about stuff like that... sorry if i seem rude:X!
:w::rose::peace:
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That's true sis, but if you are too tired to stand then Allah will overlook, but not if it is just out of laziness.

(BTW ur Avatar looks dangerous.....lol......)
 
fozley said:
That's true sis, but if you are too tired to stand then Allah will overlook, but not if it is just out of laziness.

(BTW ur Avatar looks dangerous.....lol......)
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Hmmm.... that's because I AM dangerous. Dangerously kind, sweet, and funny:happy:!

I think it would be overlooked if the woman was pregnant or something, otherwise i think he/she should put up with it and stop making excuses:okay:.
:w::rose::peace:
 
hey sis how coems where it says gender 4 u it says 'sister in humanity'... yuz is our sister in islam!
 

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