I Need Help :(

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oh sis , if u 2 are divorced , u must not stay with him alone as this is not allowed anymore . If u need to talk to him , u have to do it in presence of someone else to avoid the temptation of Satan. Don't let him touch u again as it's haram.


Pl. offer Ishthekhara prayer & take a decision. Talk to any professional marriage counsellor . Online free help is also availabe .. i guess.

feel free to pm/ email me if u need to talk to me.

may Allah make it easy for u , Ameen.
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Thank you sister :) I haven't done anything unlawful, nor will I. I have made it clear that he cant push the line that is between us now...and i think this time he finally got it. I haven't heard from him in a while now.
 
I am trying to keep busy, but it is hard. I study so school keeps me a little busy, but ever since the break up my mood and concentration has been low...i cant get out of this gloomy depression.

I have family with me, I am living with them. I do have their love and support...but a part of me just died or went missing when this relationship ended. There is a void there i feel no one can fill....
 
Im sorry to hear of what your going through sis.

Sis all I can say is this --- Under no circumstances let him back in your life -- no contact is the best thing -- because its over yes but also cause too much time has passed, words have been said, tears have been shed, and love and trust broken. You cant go back to how it was as it will never be that way again.

Im sorry if this is harsh on you but it something that took me ages to realise myself. I always always held out hope that things will go back to how it used to be. But it just can't --- its better to cut contact and drift apart. You can cut him out of your immediately but cutting him from your thoughts will take time.

And thats what they mean by time heals wounds --- with time you think less and less about him. Now is the time to grieve sis (if you havent already) -- yes you gotta say goodbye to that part of your life and day by day rediscover yourself and gain a deeper connection with allah and your self.

Increase your worship and fInd out what it is that excites you interests you and explore them. You might surprise yourself and be capable of doing things you never thought you could.

Just remember sis its hard but a step and day at a time -- pick up your life and start moving forwards inshaAllah. This is "ME" time sis -- so make the most of it grieve, heal, rediscover, reenergise and inshaAllah when time is right you will be able to marry again and be able to be there emotionally.

And sis, the doctor is always there for chat too --- doctors arent just there for your physical health but your mental and emotional health too -- go speak to your doc sis inshaallah they can also help--- its time like these I wish there was a professional islamic counselling service, Inshaallah with time.

Anyways sis --- ive developed a thing for long posts lol i gotta stop -- if you need a chat im here inshaAllah.
 
Greetings and peace be with you Muslima_82;

Is it possible to forgive your husband and pray for him, that Allah may also forgive him for all the wrongs he has done you.

I believe that we can understand more fully how God can forgive us our sins if we also forgive them. If we cannot forgive them, how can we understand and accept that God will forgive them and us.

In the spirit of praying for an inner peace

Eric
 
Greetings and peace be with you Muslima_82;

How are you today,

In the spirit of praying for an inner peace

Eric
 

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