Subhanallah.....
I will pray for you ...for sure....Your struggle for Allah will never go unnoticed in the heavens...
Refer to this verse:
Allah does not burden anyone, except with something within its capacity; beneficial for it is the virtue it earned, and harmful for it is the evil it earned; "Our Lord! Do not seize us if we forget or are mistaken; our Lord! And do not place on us a heavy burden (responsibility) as You did on those before us; our Lord! And do not impose on us a burden, for which we do not have the strength; and pardon us - and forgive us - and have mercy on us - You are our Master, therefore help us against the disbelievers." (Surah Baqarah, last verse)
So if it becomes unbearable, turn to other means of covering your hair....there's like that cap kind of thing that my mum wears under her scarf to keep it all tify.....perhaps u can give that a try....
Allah does not burden a soul with what it cannot bear.....