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Hi
OK, see that's me since a long while
ummm I don't want anything, really nothing i want, i have no whishes, no ambitions, life is very boring to me, why is that, do you know, is this normal?
I don't want anybody just wanna be alone. i'm like that since many years
actually i was a lonely kid as well, i prefered to be so
 
wow! have you had a hard childhood or felt abondon or left out? (u dont me askin) sometimes people feel like you do when they have had an unfortunate childhood. if its the case see someone about it, or get out there and try to find something that interest you, theres lots of career paths, hobbies that will catch your attention.
salam
 
Alaikumassalam,

There are many factors causal to such feelings. Much of it could be attributed to the time and place of your birth. I do not mean this in the sense of astrology which is usually the work of shaytan; but rather only that there are larger forces than we can comprehend at work in Allah upon each and ever one of us. Each of us is unique and experiencing this age and all of modern society uniquely.

When a feeling sustains a constance; that it has been true in every instance of your life; then it is more likely to be a causal factor of who you really are inside. That is, when any specific comprehension or feeling of certainty is connected with actual Soul, it sustains a truth of constance in every single circumstance. Every place, every company, every time, in every comparison the same. If that is the case then the understanding is essential to your being and it is proper that you regard it as worthy.

Boredom is amply worthy. Most folk are altogether too interested in matters that are not of their own mind. So I will leave this post at that, in the expectation that you are a person whom can work through any enquiry into your self best alone.

wasalam
 
salam.
humm.. am like that at times, i just want everyone to leave me alone but actually good feeling && also i think it's best to stay alone because i think by being alone is better but i mean your love ones being alive aswel :(
w.salam

p.s *am in a hurry i gotcha go so yeah sowiee if i don't make sense will get back to you A.s.ap inshallah for now have fun lonley boy :p
 
Mike said:
Hi
OK, see that's me since a long while
ummm I don't want anything, really nothing i want, i have no whishes, no ambitions, life is very boring to me, why is that, do you know, is this normal?
I don't want anybody just wanna be alone. i'm like that since many years
actually i was a lonely kid as well, i prefered to be so
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Allahu akbar ! Now all u need to do is feel the beauty of the pleasure of Allah (by performing righteous deeds/praying tahajjud etc etc) and trust me someone like you, mashAllah you will get hooked ;)

:salamext:
 
Hi
OK, see that's me since a long while
ummm I don't want anything, really nothing i want, i have no whishes, no ambitions, life is very boring to me, why is that, do you know, is this normal?
I don't want anybody just wanna be alone. i'm like that since many years
actually i was a lonely kid as well, i prefered to be so
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i dont think theres anything wrong with this (well probably coz im exactly like u subhanallah)
:w:
 
:salamext:

I say take brother Mazed's advice. Read into Islam, and you will see what your purpose in life is, and what your ambitions should be. You will find peace and solace in reading the kalaam-Allah, trust me.:)

:wasalamex
 
:sl:

I feel mike's pain. I feel that way frequently, way too much :cry: . But I guess i have changed a bit, not too much. I talk, but still feel that loneliness. I read Qur'an and then I don't feel lonely, but as soon as I stop, or read enough for a day, i feel lonely and lost in thought.

Here is a solution to you: Go outside and volunteer in a musjid, help out others, pray five salahs, give advise (become a junoir type of counsellor), and read Qur'an, and just keep yourself busy in anyway. This helped me greatly, I still feel lonely, so I adapted another activity or habit, to keep praying in my mind as much as i can. Try these things Mike, I am very sure it will help you out :) .

:w:
 
Masha'Allah bro, attachment and chasing this world results in nothing at the end of our lives. so long as you make plenty of Ibaadah and do things Solely for the Sake of Allah(swt) then thats a blessing i suppose.... Allahu'Alam.

we must all bear in mind, our Prophet(saw) lived his life as we human beings do, ur family have rights over us, our body has rights over us.
 
Mike said:
Hi
OK, see that's me since a long while
ummm I don't want anything, really nothing i want, i have no whishes, no ambitions, life is very boring to me, why is that, do you know, is this normal?
I don't want anybody just wanna be alone. i'm like that since many years
actually i was a lonely kid as well, i prefered to be so
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Salam, You know bro I'm exactly like that also.... Yeah, it does get very lonely like that at times, but, the number one solution is to read the Quran and do other acts of Ibadah like brother Mazed and limitless said. You should inshallah find a deep sense of fulfillment in your life.
 
ya_Giney said:
wow! have you had a hard childhood or felt abondon or left out? (u dont me askin) sometimes people feel like you do when they have had an unfortunate childhood. if its the case see someone about it, or get out there and try to find something that interest you, theres lots of career paths, hobbies that will catch your attention.
salam
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first of all thank you for your reply, as for my childhood many loved to be my friend but i prefered to be alone, i got whatever i want, my parents bought everything i want and need for me, so i don't think it was an unfortunate childhood, and there is NOTHING interests me ''at all''
 
ive been going through this experience for two years and now i seem like the happiest person :D lol, trust me mike, its all about pleasing Allah, once Allah is pleased wiv you jannah is next ;) and thats we're we'll have interest in EVERYTHING :)

:peace: :salamext:
 
Curaezipirid said:
When a feeling sustains a constance; that it has been true in every instance of your life; then it is more likely to be a causal factor of who you really are inside.
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And is this normal? that's my question?
Curaezipirid said:
Boredom is amply worthy. Most folk are altogether too interested in matters that are not of their own mind.
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i can't do this , i tried but couldn't continue
 
Kittygyal said:
salam.
humm.. am like that at times, i just want everyone to leave me alone but actually good feeling && also i think it's best to stay alone because i think by being alone is better but i mean your love ones being alive aswel :(
w.salam

p.s *am in a hurry i gotcha go so yeah sowiee if i don't make sense will get back to you A.s.ap inshallah for now have fun lonley boy :p
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ok sister , so see you later :)
yeah i'm the lonely guy very lonely but not sad at all
 
am abit confused.....ur prob or matter is that u dnt feel attached to this dunya....jus wanna sit alone in one place?......

being lonely...wot do u exactly do?.............can clarify plz...
 

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