Hi everyone this is going to be a long read to please bear with me I try to make it as short as possible.
I am a muslim girl from a household of 7 siblings my dad has 2 wifes my mom and then I have a step-mother and 2 step-siblings. My mom is British so I have always enjoyed the British culture and have been in the UK for nearly 10 years but before my dad worked in Saudi Arabia, and that's where it all started.
My own brother sexually abused me for a duration of 5/6 years it started when I was 7. He use to buy me things like phones, take me out and buy cloths etc and do stuff to me in exchange, he never went in but always tried to put stuff etc in my behind and forced me to watch inappropriate content. I never liked it, I never wanted it but I was young and my family was never close, my mom and dad didnt really care about me or tought me anything or the whole family, no one is close, no one cares about each other. I had no support to tell anyone and never felt safe.
It came out last year and no one believed me, not even my mom which is what hurts the most. I want her to not speak to him, or forgive him, or call or have any association with my brother because of what he did to me. My mom is old and doesnt know half the time what day it is. I tried to forgive her because after my sisters visted me and I told the full story they believed me but I didnt want to have to say it all for someone to believe me. They convinced my mom but its not genuine why didnt she believe me when I told her.
My dad also found out but didnt call me, or didnt call my husband (who already knew), didn't message or visit me which also makes me so angry. My mom says she believes me but I dont actually think she does, when I visit her its so fake she thinks it's all gone away but doesn't want to talk about the actual subject, my brother, who abused me, used to live with us at my mom's house and I hate visiting because it triggers me.
I went a while ago and when I left i cried my eyes out to my husband, i am just to angry and hate the house and my mom why didnt she believe me why is she still talking to him I just dont know what to do.
Best case scenario I want her to talk to me about it and tell me she believes me and I want her to cut ties with that monster. But I know she wont do that as 'it her son' but I just dont know how to handle this.
My husband has been through this with me and if it wasnt for his support, I dont know what i would be doing. He is very understanding, this issue has effected our relationship and it hard at the moment. Any advice would be really appreciated.
I am a muslim girl from a household of 7 siblings my dad has 2 wifes my mom and then I have a step-mother and 2 step-siblings. My mom is British so I have always enjoyed the British culture and have been in the UK for nearly 10 years but before my dad worked in Saudi Arabia, and that's where it all started.
My own brother sexually abused me for a duration of 5/6 years it started when I was 7. He use to buy me things like phones, take me out and buy cloths etc and do stuff to me in exchange, he never went in but always tried to put stuff etc in my behind and forced me to watch inappropriate content. I never liked it, I never wanted it but I was young and my family was never close, my mom and dad didnt really care about me or tought me anything or the whole family, no one is close, no one cares about each other. I had no support to tell anyone and never felt safe.
It came out last year and no one believed me, not even my mom which is what hurts the most. I want her to not speak to him, or forgive him, or call or have any association with my brother because of what he did to me. My mom is old and doesnt know half the time what day it is. I tried to forgive her because after my sisters visted me and I told the full story they believed me but I didnt want to have to say it all for someone to believe me. They convinced my mom but its not genuine why didnt she believe me when I told her.
My dad also found out but didnt call me, or didnt call my husband (who already knew), didn't message or visit me which also makes me so angry. My mom says she believes me but I dont actually think she does, when I visit her its so fake she thinks it's all gone away but doesn't want to talk about the actual subject, my brother, who abused me, used to live with us at my mom's house and I hate visiting because it triggers me.
I went a while ago and when I left i cried my eyes out to my husband, i am just to angry and hate the house and my mom why didnt she believe me why is she still talking to him I just dont know what to do.
Best case scenario I want her to talk to me about it and tell me she believes me and I want her to cut ties with that monster. But I know she wont do that as 'it her son' but I just dont know how to handle this.
My husband has been through this with me and if it wasnt for his support, I dont know what i would be doing. He is very understanding, this issue has effected our relationship and it hard at the moment. Any advice would be really appreciated.