Well, if you don't care for what other people say to you in reply for your thread then why you come here and post it? Be respectful to your interlocutor. Hadith should not contradict to Quran, thats a rule. First Quran only after that Hadith. Anyway, what is the point of this topic? If woman commits adultery it means 1 of 2 or both: 1) She doesn't love her husband 2) She has low moral principles, so she can have sex while she has a husband. Also remember the old wisdom: who betrayed once, he will betray twice. Usually after first zina will come second. Because it is a kind of psychology, not every woman will have sex while she is married, she's mentally should be able to make it(not every woman able to do that). Also, for man it is a hard blow to know that his woman made that, for man and woman this kind of things doesn't go same, man usually unable to sorry woman even if he doesn't divorce her, this is one of the rare things that are very hard for man to forgive to his wife, so the negative vibe will stay in those relationships for a long time... It's really very rare when such things happens by woman's fault and couple can move forward normally, usually it destroy the whole relationship. So what's the point? If you want to sorry her, ok. But remember you might be not able to really do that, that will only delay an end for a little bit.