I'm sick and tired of this, and I feel guilty (intentional)

[anonymous]

I've been having constant sexual dreams for quite a while, and the last straw came today when I ejaculated. What can I do? There is nothing to occupy myself in sleep, as it won't make me fall alseep? I'm doing ghusl and repentening from this sin full scale.

I repented from EXTREME sexual dreams, and now I'm repenting from these dreams full scale. But what can I do to pass the time sleeping, so i fall asleep?

I know if it just comes by, it's ok not my sin, but this is intentional sinning that I seriously need to stop before it's too late.

 

[greenhill]

What happens in your dreams is really not in your control. You cannot design your dreams as far as I am aware.

Nothing sinful about the dream... what happens when you are awake is different though..


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[Aaqib]

What happens in your dreams is really not in your control. You cannot design your dreams as far as I am aware.

Nothing sinful about the dream... what happens when you are awake is different though..


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Salam

He was referring to how he thought about the dream intentionally as that he intentionally dreamed of these dreams.

 

[ardianto]

I rarely dream about sex, even when I was young. What often come to my dream are travelling, riding motorcycle, walking on nature. And since few years ago sometime I dream about writing post on IB. It's because instead of thinking about sex I fill my mind with the things that I like such as traveling on nature, riding motorcycle, etc.

Bro, dream is reflection of what is in your mind. If your mind is full with sexual imagination, indeed, you will often dream about sex. But if you fill your mind with other things that you like such as sport, traveling, car modification, etc, then your dream will be about these things and rarely dream about sex.

 

[greenhill]

Salam

He was referring to how he thought about the dream intentionally as that he intentionally dreamed of these dreams.

Then it is called "daydreaming" or fantasizing? If it is, then it is entirely different than dreaming. On that I did say what you do when awake is different. ....

.... unless I am totally in the wrong room here... :embarrass^o)


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