Inter faith marriage!

[Italianguy]

Hi there. Im 25 desperately seeking advice as i am torn apart and dnt knw wot 2do. I was a devouted christian until i married my muslim husbnd 18mnths ago. I chose to revert 2islam without really knwng wot its about. I ws gven the ultimate to revert or we would nt marry- so i did. I hav been a spiritual wreck ever snce because my hrt belongs to christianity. I dread the lie i live that islam is for me and fantasize bout bein a xtian again. Im deeply inlove with my husbnd and he mkes me happy. Bt deep down im utterly sad and thoughts of running away or ending my life come to play. I told him when we were 7mnths married that i wish i were xtian because its who i am and regret leavng the faith. It straind our marriage so much that at 11mnths i moved out wantng a div. I returnd the same day cos he sed i could b wot i want bt hs fam and friends musnt knw. That didnt help either so i chose to try hard at being a muslim. Bt i just cant anymre. Im nw preg and am even mre hrtbroken. I dnt hav the hrt to leav him cos he doesnt deserv a broken hrt and to lose hs wife and kid yet i dnt hav the hrt to stay and wait to die spiritualy torn sumday. What shld i do can any1 pls advice me? I am in tears when alone and yet smile when in company. Its almst christmas and wish i could put up a tree bt obviously cant. Pls help. Purpose driven.

"Purpose Driven Life" is an awesome book. I am assuming you have read it, asbyour user name implies?

You are in a tough situation. Have you tried marriage counsiling?

Since you are a Christain, assuming you believe in the Holy Trinity, and that Jesus Christ is your Lord and Saviuor. You really need to consult a pastor. You should also tell him about your feelings of taking your own life, imsad another was right about this, it is neither accepted by Islam or Christianity.

Your bigest concern is you first, then the fat that you are bearing a child and have a husband and family to attend to. Your first and foremost obligation is God and giving Him glory. It is because of God you have all of these positive things happening in your life.

Take out the fact that you are fighting with yourself about this....You gave nothing but great things to be thankful to God for, Husband, Baby, life.

Enjoy these things while your still here

Is your husband understanding of your Christianity?

If he has no problem why do you?

If he does have a problem, ask him if he can learn to understand.

Put him in your situation, would he do the same?

Also keep in mind what the Bible says about a marriage like this.

1 Corinthians 7:12–13 (NIV)

12 To the rest I say this (I, not the Lord): If any brother has a wife who is not a believer and she is willing to live with him, he must not divorce her. 13 And if a woman has a husband who is not a believer and he is willing to live with her, she must not divorce him.14 For the unbelieving husband has been sanctified through his wife, and the unbelieving wife has been sanctified through her believing husband. Otherwise your children would be unclean, but as it is, they are holy.



Talk this through sister. I couldn't imagine being in a situation like this. But good can come of it.

Oh btw, you probably won't be able to put up a Christmas tree, but you can always go to your families house?

Don't be in tears sisterimsad

You have many that care about you(and me) and One who's unconditional love will never leave you! (you know who i'm talking about)

God bless.