Brother, Music for the youth today has become like alcohol,drugs... Its become so addictive...
However like smoking has a cure, music can also be cured. Its not 'impossible'.
If you go to a doctor with a smoking addiction, he'll tell you to decrease the amount of times you smoke daily. Why dont you do the same? I am not saying don't listen to music, but listen to Islamic nasheeds. Listen to nasheeds which have names of Allah and the prophet s.a.w, so you could also praise Allah at the same time!
Now we come to the next topic, which is 'Islamic nasheeds' I don't want to make this into a speech but a nasheed which has musical instruments in them, are haraam. EXCEPT duff. I'd reccomend you to listen to nasheeds with no background music. Only the voice.