Just Married - Alhamdulillaah

[noraina]

Alf mabrook!

May Allah swt bless you and your wife with a blessed, happy marriage and may you both benefit abundantly from it in both deen and dunya ameen.

I would say, first and foremost, love your wive for the sake of Allah swt, and she should do the same with you. And this is probably redundant of me to say, but communication is key - communicate your feelings for her regularly (men sometimes underestimate how important this can be to a woman and how much this means to her) and again, if you have any problems or concerns, communicate them to her as well - rather than leaving them unspoken and unaddressed.

And all of us, men and women, should of course follow the sunnah and hadiths of our beloved Prophet (peace be upon him) regarding marriage (and everything else of course) ...subhanAllah a perfect model of conduct as a husband and companion.

Try and be as gentle with her as possible, women are sensitive .

 

[islamirama]

Congratulations bro, may Allah bless your marriage and protect it from the hasad of others.

Remember there is time for a man to stand his ground and speak and a time for him to keep quiet. Know the difference and when which is appropriate.

A woman's greatest need is emotional (in the context of marriage), fulfill that need and she will fulfill all your needs.

 

[Kiro]

An appolalypse*

I'm wondering how this relates to my question[emoji85]

Think about it! What if the world was running out of sugar, or sweets or zombies suddenly came out.

Parents should hurry up and make babies so they can make the world a better place or save it of what may be

Or... what if... I dropped my sandwitch

and a young man is like: Here you can have mine.

See free foood

What if death comes before any of that stuff is possible?? Like the couple didn't summon a tubby from the belly coz it was too late

ok... do baby making so I don't have to do anything. Couch potato.

 

[Mustafa16]

Congratulations, bro! I'm so happy for you! May Allah bless your marriage and may you have a happy marriage.....I can't really give much advice since I am only 17, but all I can say, I know that marriage requires compromise, and a lot of it, on both sides.

 

[zAk]

Ma sha Allah, Mabrook!
بَارَكَ اللهُ لَكُم ، وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكُم ، وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ

‘May Allaah bless for you (your spouse) and bless you, and may He unite both of you in goodness.’

i think expecting a return is a recipe for pain tbh

You already have half the wisdom to live a happy life. Learn to say "Sorry" often for the rest.

 

[Scimitar]

ALLAHU AKBAR, congratulations my brother, mashaAllah,

Scimi

 

[mission2succeed]

JazakAllah khair for replies

Also what is the feeling of sisters in regards to doing Umrah right after marriage?

Is it something you are comfortable with or would prefer to wait and get to know each other more?

Brother I would strongly recommend you both to go on umrah insha'allah just always remember religion comes before everything else. On you is to guide your wife towards good insha'allah and this would be a great way of showing your religious commitment. It will take time for you both to get to know each other insha'allah but things that are done in the way of Allah are better than those that are led upon desires. Remember marriage is a two way thing and it is built on trust. If you expect your wife to treat you well you need to show the same in return insha'allah.

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

Ma sha Allah, Mabrook!
بَارَكَ اللهُ لَكُم ، وَبَارَكَ عَلَيْكُم ، وَجَمَعَ بَيْنَكُمَا فِي خَيْرٍ

‘May Allaah bless for you (your spouse) and bless you, and may He unite both of you in goodness.’
You already have half the wisdom to live a happy life. Learn to say "Sorry" often for the rest.

Im already use to apologising

 

[Re.TiReD]

Assalamu 'alaykum

Mabrook! May your married life be a happy and blissful one. Ameen.

Sincere advice, talk to her. Why are you asking on the forum what sisters would think about performing umrah after marriage? No matter what we say your wife will have an opinion of her own so ask her. The key to a good marriage and healthy relationship is communication, so whenever you feel tempted to ask on the forum or ask advice from anybody else etc...speak to her first. I don't just mean right now, I mean in future and always.

Salam

 

[Serinity]

Allahumma barik lahu
@Kiro that "lahu" that "la" is a zabur, "hu" is a pesh!! Laha would be zabur. I think I understand now. In shaa' Allah.) (hope I said it correctly) may we all meet in Jannah. may Allah :swt: gather us in Jannah. Ameen.

And Allah :swt: knows best.