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i posted before and i have made my chose im going to get married ive spoken to my local iman and he knws a handful of sisters and ill start meeting them soon my parents have accepted im so glad know.and they will back me {money wise intill i am stable the iman said it is ok becouse im doing it for allahs sake,to all you youngers i would advise you to get married. and also i will exercise my rights and after i marry a sister will marry anthere one whats your opinion on that
 
congratulation in advance,if this is ur decision , and u told ur parents so! there is nothing to say
but don't say to my brother i'm afraid he'll start a fight to get married

and also i will exercise my rights and after i marry a sister will marry anthere one whats your opinion on that
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mashAllah, may Allah bestow upon you a beautiful pious wife who keeps you happy and leads you to jannatul firdaus al-a'la
 
*Yasmin* said:
congratulation in advance,if this is ur decision , and u told ur parents so! there is nothing to say
but don't say to my brother i'm afraid he'll start a fight to get married


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i intend to marry 4 wives inshallah if allah wills
 
yusuf18 said:
i intend to marry 4 wives inshallah if allah wills
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May Allah give you the strength to do that ,and grant you the best wifes
ameen!

noteside: don't tell you're first wife that you intend to marry another one
 
do women mind if their husband takes on a anthere wife what do you think sisters why shud they mind when allah granted his permishin
 
Assalamu Alaikum

May Allah grant you the patience to fulfill your intentions.

You should research more about the topic of multiple wives inshallah though because there's a lot to handle and if you decide to tell your wife that you have intentions to do this and she's someone who wouldn't support you, then you would need to know how to handle accordingly so that it doesn't seem as hurtful (if that's the correct word here) to her knowing you'd be in love with someone else, so address it in the best islamic way possible, because it's something that's not considered haraam nor is it something that is disliked in Islam, and a lot of sisters let their emotions and cultural values get in the way of what is considered to be halaal and undoubtedly a part of Islam. Just make sure to be fair and kind amongst them, inshallah, cuz there are those bros who take on a load more than they could handle and end up tainting the reputation of polygyny.

fi aman Allah
wa'alaikum asalaam
 
Why not just marry your first wife first, and see how things work out? :?

It can't be exactly encouraging for your wife-to-be to hear all about wife two, three and four before you have even married her ...
 
yusuf18 said:
do women mind if their husband takes on a anthere wife what do you think sisters why shud they mind when allah granted his permishin
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i don't disagree the permission that Allah swt grants to to men
but it's hard for a woman to accept the fact that her husband will marry another it seems like she is not enough for him, she could'nt please him,like she is not the world for him
plus it's the nature of the woman,for me i can't handle the fact easly that i'll share my husband with another woman!
first i'll feel jealous and angry i guess!
 
*Yasmin* said:
i don't disagree the permission that Allah swt grants to to men
but it's hard for a woman to accept the fact that her husband will marry another it seems like she is not enough for him, she could'nt please him,like she is not the world for him
plus it's the nature of the woman,for me i can't handle the fact easly that i'll share my husband with another woman!
first i'll feel jealous and angry i guess!
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yea i suppose but if allah give me right ill take it
 
yusuf18 said:
do women mind if their husband takes on a anthere wife what do you think sisters why shud they mind when allah granted his permishin
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:sl: Erm personally I wouldn't mind if my husband were to marry another wife, he just has to tell me first.

Alhamdulilah akhee, don't jump into things and say that you intend to marry another. Inshaa'Allaah work on getting one wife first and then see how works out, if you can take on another wife, then inshaa'Allaah let your first wife know. Just work on getting married to your first though.

May Allaah grant you a pious wife inshaa'Allaah.
 
This isn't the end, you haven't found the right one yet, sooo Pray, pray, and....PRAY you find a religious, sweet, and beautiful girl inside and out and that you live happily!
Insha'Allah

I'm happy for you! Let us know when the wedding is bro.

haha btw, one woman is a handful trusssst me.
When there's two they're going to be fighting over you like there's no tomorrow.
This is the 21st century, us girls, we're hard to handle.
 
yusuf18 said:
i posted before and i have made my chose im going to get married ive spoken to my local iman and he knws a handful of sisters and ill start meeting them soon my parents have accepted im so glad know.and they will back me {money wise intill i am stable the iman said it is ok becouse im doing it for allahs sake,to all you youngers i would advise you to get married. and also i will exercise my rights and after i marry a sister will marry anthere one whats your opinion on that
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mashallah brother, this just goes to show people that things can be sorted out sooner or later if we just apply ourselves to the problem.

marriage isnt always easy but the benefits far outway any small problems along the way.
 
yusuf18 said:
do women mind if their husband takes on a anthere wife what do you think sisters why shud they mind when allah granted his permishin
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If my husband so as mentioned such a thing, he'd lose me.
 
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mashAllah, 4 wifes? May Allah give u alot of strength for that

How old r u if u dnt mind me asking?
 
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yusuf18 said:
do women mind if their husband takes on a anthere wife what do you think sisters why shud they mind when allah granted his permishin
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alot of women would, no doubt about it... why does she mind? tell me when you have put yourself in her shoes. how would you feel if she married or simply looked at another man? how would you like it if she shared her heart with another man? that's what kills a women. women are fueled on emotions and feelings, and if these feelings aren't satisfied i.e when they go towards someone else, then it'll hurt her. deeply.
 
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