Marriage

[flowers98.f]

I’m an African, But My dream is to get married to a decent, good charactered Arab Muslimat


So help me Ya Allah

 

[MuslimahRo]

You should be open to whomever Allah sends your way. As long as you like the person and are attracted to the person, it shouldn't matter to what ethnicity the person belongs.

 

[Nashita]

I’m an African, But My dream is to get married to a decent, good charactered Arab Muslimat


So help me Ya Allah

I think you're in the wrong path if you're having such dreams . Marriage isn't a joke or something! You're gonna spend your lifetime with someone so you need to be careful whom you decide to marry. Don't fall for looks, money or anything that you find attractive about her. Judge her as a person, see if she deserves all your love! And before deciding anything, always consult your parents.

 

[anatolian]

Nothing is wrong when it comes to marriage. It is all about preferences. You cant tell anyone that he/she must want to marry that or must not want to marry this unless it is out of the Islamic circle.

 

[azc]

I’m an African, But My dream is to get married to a decent, good charactered Arab Muslimat


So help me Ya Allah

Tell your parents about this and contact any matrimonial to find a suitable Arab partner.

 

[xboxisdead]

Nothing is wrong when it comes to marriage. It is all about preferences. You cant tell anyone that he/she must want to marry that or must not want to marry this unless it is out of the Islamic circle.

I agree 100% with the sister that marriage is serious and not a game. A man should look for a woman for her character and iman and nothing else. Everything else is secondary (including skin color and looks). If the woman of bad character, manipulative, sociopath, evil but the most beautiful woman on Earth...would that make her a good marriage material? NOPE! Kuffar men do not care, because they have one thing in mind...have sex with her and move on to the next conquest. Kuffar men do not care if she is lesbian or not, if she is evil or not...he just want to get laid to an attractive women..hit it and quit it. That is their thinking. We are Muslim. We think different than they do. For us when we have relationship with a woman it is for one thing only...wife and mother to our children. So we have to look for her good character and piety..even her intelligence and degree and strong independent women is secondary to that. Top two characters: A) Her Iman followed by her B) her character. Everything like intelligence, beauty, strength, power, all comes next and if she lacks in one or any of these it is irrelevant because we have fulfilled the first two most important thing A and B. By her good character makes her good to be your wife and mother to your children combined with her good Iman. Who cares if she does't know astronomy or a genius scientists. All but dream this world.

 

[anatolian]

I agree 100% with the sister that marriage is serious and not a game. A man should look for a woman for her character and iman and nothing else. Everything else is secondary (including skin color and looks). If the woman of bad character, manipulative, sociopath, evil but the most beautiful woman on Earth...would that make her a good marriage material? NOPE! Kuffar men do not care, because they have one thing in mind...have sex with her and move on to the next conquest. Kuffar men do not care if she is lesbian or not, if she is evil or not...he just want to get laid to an attractive women..hit it and quit it. That is their thinking. We are Muslim. We think different than they do. For us when we have relationship with a woman it is for one thing only...wife and mother to our children. So we have to look for her good character and piety..even her intelligence and degree and strong independent women is secondary to that. Top two characters: A) Her Iman followed by her B) her character. Everything like intelligence, beauty, strength, power, all comes next and if she lacks in one or any of these it is irrelevant because we have fulfilled the first two most important thing A and B. By her good character makes her good to be your wife and mother to your children combined with her good Iman. Who cares if she does't know astronomy or a genius scientists. All but dream this world.

Have no idea what you try to tell. I didnt say any of the criteria you imply is unimportant. But you can want to marry someone who has both good looks and character. Also you can want to marry someone from a specific people if you like something with that people. Nothing is wrong with that. On the other hand it is “better” to be open for larger options.

 

[xboxisdead]

Have no idea what you try to tell. I didnt say any of the criteria you imply is unimportant. But you can want to marry someone who has both good looks and character. Also you can want to marry someone from a specific people if you like something with that people. Nothing is wrong with that. On the other hand it is “better” to be open for larger options.

Sure! If you can have a woman with excellent iman, character and good looks now that is a jackpot!! ;D;D;D;D

 

[Nashita]

Nothing is wrong when it comes to marriage. It is all about preferences. You cant tell anyone that he/she must want to marry that or must not want to marry this unless it is out of the Islamic circle.

It's totally fine to have preferences but such preferences usually lead to an unsuccessful marriage.
I absolutely agree with the brother that good Imaan and good character should be the first preference for choosing a life partner. And also this is what our Islamic culture says.

 

[xboxisdead]

it's totally fine to have preferences but such preferences usually lead to an unsuccessful marriage.
I absolutely agree with the brother that good imaan and good character should be the first preference for choosing a life partner. And also this is what our islamic culture says.

bingo!! ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D ;D Did you know when I was a little boy at age 10 and sitting in my car and my told me that some Muslim man married a non-muslim women...my heart beat beated so fast from anger at that man and I believed that man was an idiot..a moron. Here we have good Muslim sisters and he picks a non-muslim women and I thought at that child he lost all his right for his children and he send his children to hellfire. At that age I told my mom I will never marry a non-Muslim women ever.

 

[MuslimahRo]

Well, Allah created people to have preferences for certain physical types and not others. That shouldn't be dismissed. I don't care how good a Muslim a guy is if I don't feel attracted to him. On the other hand, even if I find myself attracted to someone who is not a good Muslim, then I am not interested either.

 

[Tayiba]

I’m an African, But My dream is to get married to a decent, good charactered Arab Muslimat


So help me Ya Allah

Help him Ya Allah! We ask You to bless him and everyone the same who have the same wish. Ameen *aloud*