Assalamualaikum. My name is Mohsin and my cousin name is Noor Fatima. Firstly I want to tell you that I was in relationship with my cousin for 3 years and we also talked each other on mobile phone.on chat. One day, I asked her that will you marry me. She said. Yes. Then I asked her, "Noor Fatima daughter of (her father's name), have you accepted this nikah(wedlock) three times. And she said yes,all three times. Is she in my nikah or not??