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im 16 and well im a MSN hollic i got more then 250 contacts N lets sai atleast 150 of the contacts i dont knoe face to face and from that 150 contacts i dont knoee atleast 130 of dem r male......im not being bigheaded but i am an attractive person and im not scared to show and flaunt my beauty (which is my weakness) i have mre then 700 pictures of myself stored on my computer and my display picture changes from daii to daii and i get alot of nice comments/sweet talks from guys, i dnt take any of they talks to heart cuz its jst msn and i dnt trust any of dem but yh i have meet up wid som of the guys and they were nice guys (im not going to lie) but yh i jst noticed da my movements are getting to loose cuz i sumtyms even agree to get on cam (as long as they do) N im due to meet a guy up in 2 daiis plus hes not a muslim however he does knoee im a muslim......he has been askign me to meet him up mre then 20tyms but i always made ecuses but dis tym i had no excuses and i jst thought wa is da harm in meeting him he seems like a nice person and i have seen a picture of him and i have seen him on cam, plus hes the same age as me so its not liek hes a predator or sumfing. but iw as jst wondering am i over thinking dis or is dis normal.
 
Tell the males to delete me and that never try to talk me ever again.
 
^ AMeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeen !

this is wrong sis ,
DOnt delete the contacts ....Make a NEW ACCOUNT and put only the ones who are trustwhorty ( family, friends etc.) !

:wasalamex
 
I think also sister...without making this sound harsh... sometimes we need to humble ourselves and realise that Allaah gives us things be it beauty or wealth or intelligence... and we can use it in a right way or a wrong way... or in some cases not use it at all. Hearts need to be humbled before they die hard
 
yh but wen ppl r telling u fings like "awww ur soo beautiful MASHALLAH" they always add da wrd mashallah which makes me fink hmmmm they are right i am beautiful (not in a bigheaded waii) and i have been blessed wid dis beauty so y not show it off and i dnt get compliments from guys onli i get it from my girldfrnds too
 
!! But surely that is bigheaded? To think why not get compliments and show myself off? :hmm:
 
AssalamuAlaykum

So what do you get from these compliments? If you know you're beautiful then thank Allah (swt) for it.

And you know, if I say anything else I'm prolly going to sound harsh so I'll leave you with this du'aa insha'Allah:

'Oh Allah you have made me beautiful in physique so make me beautiful in character' Ameen

WassalamuAlaykum
 
....Say Alhamdullilah and protect your Beauty!
 
okeii i might sound loose however i aint done any loose actions i have not been kissed, touched inapropiately by a male.
 
i will stop the waii im going at da moment however i do not believe it will effect me in da long-run simply because no1 has to knoee ima shut it out of my life and my future hubbie will inshallah have no clue.
 
You can shut it out?

Sis old habits die hard.

If you think you can shut it out, then do it now
 
your future husband wont have a clue?

Sister... ostentation is more a sin of the heart than just merely a sin of a physical action. And by placing your photos on msn, you have taken an action be it 'loose' or anything else... that was your choice...your action.

May Allaah rectify your affairs-aameen
 
so what you get from showing the others your beauty and receive the complements from them?
nothing....
are u happy because they said masha allah? this is not a proof that they are good, and even if so, why showing non-mahram ur beauty? and what if they said masha allah?

sis u r harming ur self, you need to stop that immediately and create a new account and put only your female friends and you mahram men NOTHING ELSE

and by the way, talking to non mahram via msn is HARAM because the forbiden Khalwa (being alone with them) is applied as well
 
@ Bro Alpha: Masha'Allah at the gheerah of our brothers in Islam.

Seriously your posts are beautiful bro, JazakAllah khayr. Sis listen to him and read the posts carefully insha'Allah, it's sincere naseehah.

I've known people who have dont the same as you and gotten into the same mess. I've always advised them to think about what they're doing and to respect themselves. You're not. For a moments pleasure you're throwing ur hayaa away. For a compliment or two ur earning the displeasure of Allah.
 
yh i recently started wearing da hijab however i i onli wear it wenever i feel like it but all my pictures are widout a headscarf cuz mst of dem were taken b4 i wore da sscarf or they were takin whilst at a wedding or at home (where i dnt wear da hijab)..... i get wah u mean alpha dude about no muslim man would marry me if they knew wah i have done but yh they dnt have to knoee as long as i shut it put, and move on hw will they possibly know??
and yh inshallah i will shange my habits and da waii im going on u really have made me fink twice alpha dude.
 
Lets not be too harsh plsss okkkk. Lets not call her loose. Insults don't go down well wen it comes to dawah.

Sis dont worry about a husband, worry about ALlah.

Allah is wat shud matter.
 
May Allaah help you-aameen.

Come on sister...you're 16... you can do so much more with your life... Inshaa'Allaah :)
 
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