Muslim man and non-muslim marriage

Thank you! Once again, EXCELLENT responses :) I really appreciate it.

of course, I would not compromise. I would stand firm and would never ever be with someone who eats haram food or alcohol or put up xmas trees etc... but if they are willing to make the change for the better then that is a step closer.
its a good question about things like what if she wanted to go to a 7pm movie - well of course, you would compromise here in the sense of either grab a later movie or an earlier movie. But if she cannot understand this then of course she is not respectful and therefore that will lead one issue to another and thus not good.

the point I am making is - as long as she is respectful, willing to change and not just for the sake of the potential husband then surely it is the step in the right direction?
 
lostsoul2016 said:
the point I am making is - as long as she is respectful, willing to change and not just for the sake of the potential husband then surely it is the step in the right direction?
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If you think that marrying someone who does not believe in Allaah :swt: and his Rasool :saws: is a good step, your Imaan is in need of urgent check.
 
That's not what I said. Please re-read carefully of fact and not what you are thinking I am saying or heading towards which is incorrect.
 
lostsoul2016 said:
the point I am making is - as long as she is respectful, willing to change and not just for the sake of the potential husband then surely it is the step in the right direction?
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This is what you said - fact remains she is non Muslim, Khalaas.
 
:salamext:

Tbh, there are plenty of Muslim women that are more beautiful and caring than a kafir. Not saying kafirs can't be caring or beautiful (physically) but their hearts carry disbelief, which is darkness. An ugliness called disbelief.

I honestly wouldn't have a kafir as my wife, even if I am attracted to her, physically or because of her characteristics.

Allahu alam.
 
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May Allah guide you. If the woman in question is chaste (never had sex before) and is willing to look into Islam and believes in one God, then perform salaatul istikhaara so Allah will guide you towards what is best for your deen. If she's meant to be your wife and is better for your iman then allah will ease your affairs, and if she isn't then inshallah it will be clear to you that she isnt.
 
Thank you.

What if the woman has had sex before? So yes, she would be non-chaste. In this type of case, what can be done (if anything) to make it permitted?
 
I am genuine and asking questions - I am not causing "trouble" or being judgemental like you are.
Please respect forum members who ask questions and are wanting to learn! Otherwise stay out from the topic please.
 
lostsoul2016 said:
Thank you.

What if the woman has had sex before? So yes, she would be non-chaste. In this type of case, what can be done (if anything) to make it permitted?
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What important is how her now, not how her in the past. If a woman has ever committed sex outside marriage in the past, but then she stop it and has good behavior, she is considered as good woman now.
 
ardianto said:
What important is how her now, not how her in the past. If a woman has ever committed sex outside marriage in the past, but then she stop it and has good behavior, she is considered as good woman now.
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Depends on whether she repented or not.
 
Being chaste cannot be associated with not having sex out of marriage. You may not this but do things which are worse than it and you may have done it but may have repented from it. Sex out of marriage is considered a sin in Judaism and Christianity also. So a Jewish or Christian woman who committed it still needs to repent from it just like a Muslim woman who committed it.
 

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