You are welcome,
My father is deceased (may Allah swt reward him for his kind heart and all the trouble he went through).
and I had to leave the UK home because of the regular abuse from a narcissistic sister, who's married - but negatively over-involved in everything,
and then left the UK totally after the same sister went OCD and started threatening to have my children taken away because I didn't wake up to go to the airport to see mum off on a short trip to bangladesh (despite three siblings being present) -
dysfunctional stuff (along with other stuff that's difficult to describe) so there was not really much choice in the matter since I have vulnerable children of my own.