my sinning brother

^ and your dads not knocking your bro out beecoooooz?

i bet your mums unda loadsa stress too... n shes got no escape..
 
some fathers just give up, in the end.
and ofcourse her mother must be going through hell with a son like that.she shud try smacking him once in while, unless he hits back ofcourse....and dnt be shocked..there are sons who do that.

sorry original poster, were killing your thread!
 
^ he needs to get knockd out


seriously i dont see anything else that will work, taking away his sense of strength and power wil make him more humble, scared... he'll think more clearly and sensibally.

i know what i would do if i knew him...
 
IbnAbdulHakim said:
^ he needs to get knockd out


seriously i dont see anything else that will work, taking away his sense of strength and power wil make him more humble, scared... he'll think more clearly and sensibally.

i know what i would do if i knew him...
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Wanna come and do it for me then bro?
 
IbnAbdulHakim said:
its better if its someone he knows and respects that does it, you seriously dont know ANYONE that he respects? an elder?


or is he too gangsta to fear anyone :rollseyes
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He has NO respect for anyone. No one wants to get involved. My bro who is a year older then me was gna bash him with a cricket bat.....long story
 
Well I have A Brother wos Even Worse He Doesnt even Fast , And Nevr Did In Hs Life , Never Prayed , Iguess He doesnt Even Know How To pray He doenst Know Anything about The deen , I did Notice a Little Imaan Tho But Very Rarely
But Only Allah Can Guide him Now , May Allah Guide Your Brother My Brother Our brothers and All Of Us Amiin

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aw cmon dont say your gna kill him, he's your bro, my bro was worse and he was/is only 18, i always made dua he would just get married and avoid the american people and haram, and guess what, he got married and totally regrets what he used to do, and you kno what? he even praying now, so surprising.

so your real answer is DUA. :) make tons and tons of dua for him when u pray
 
^^MashaAllah Was That The Bro Who Was All Gangsta ?
MashaAllah ! True Dua is A very Strong Weapon :)
 
^ i got two older, one gangsta, the other gangsta-er. they both still gangsta and gangsta blud for life, he even turning his wife gangsta, but at least he sticking to deen, life, and avoiding my dad as much as possible (they got half the world between them :p)
so gangsta dont matter, deeeen matters, and you sis make dua for ur bro, every prayer make dua, :)
 
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A person will not pray consistently unless they understand why they have to do it. They will either pray because someone just told them to, or to show off, every reason except for the sake of Allah. I remember being told to pray by my parents and I would go in the room, sit down for 5 minutes and come back to act like I prayed. Why? Because of the lack of understanding of why it had to be done.

How did the situation change? When my environment changed slightly. I went to Islamic conferences and Itikaaf just because my friends were going and Alhamdulilah, being in that environment, being forced to listen to the talks about deen somehow affected my heart and gave me enough reason to return home and begin praying for Allah. It didn't stop there and I had to keep the momentum going or else I would lose it and that was done by continually exposing myself to that environment and slowly but surely the haram actions began to fade.

So that is one method of trying to bring about change. Maybe ask him to take you to an Islamic conference and say that he should remain with you until it is over. Don't tell him that he should listen to it, but just be there. Start with small ones because he might not have the patience to stick around at the longer ones unless he was just 'chilling' with friends.

I don't know your brother or your situation, but the idea is to get him somewhere where he will involuntarily listen to talks about deen.

May Allah bring us on as Siraat al Mustaqeem.

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oh, i thought i was the only sister with the bad brother ... seems many are like ... its heartbreaking :cry:

well, if the bro wants to listen then he will. if he doesnt he wont. last night i had a fight with him ... he was kind of cursing me , that i will miserable if i get married & all. he thinks im a nag ... who wont be if she got a bro like him!

i think that his friends(girls or boys) have been feeding him stuff like that. staying out doors till late at night & out of the house for the whole days. if someone is jumping in the well, a sensible person wont becoz its not worth doing whats hip & trendy just for the sake of it! i heard him talk to his friend that im some worthless stuff & a burden.

i dont think there is anything i can do ..else he gets sense & hidayah from Allah ... and for that i can just pray ... my mom knows everything but she doesnt do anything at all ... she just prays ...i know we should rely on Allah but im sure He would want us to take some effort to solve the matter. im just scared & worried that he will bring shame to us all ... hurt my parents in everyway because he isnt a son any parent would wish for. dont know whats so wrong with him :cry::enough!:

i request you all to pray for his imaan - for his heart& mind to open & see what wrong path he has chosen for himself ... the path that will be doom for him & will heart break my parents. plz pray for him & all of us as well.

thank you soooo much
 

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