JazakAllah...
ok i have that, created the DB...
i have the name username and password...i also have the command line...
but where do i put it? (the command)
OK, now the question is: how do you want to connect to your database? What's the other side I mean? As I said, it can be (almost) anything, i.e. a programm in i.e. C#, VB.Net, PHP, C, etc. or just a simple command line client utility for MySQL, i.e. mysql.exe. You will have to have this installed on your mahcine in order to be able to access the (in this case your remote) database.
Please read MySQL reference manual on
http://dev.mysql.com/doc/refman/5.1/en/index.html
Here's an example from chapter 3 Tutorial : 3.1. Connecting to and Disconnecting from the Server
To connect to the server, you will usually need to provide a MySQL user name when you invoke mysql and, most likely, a password. If the server runs on a machine other than the one where you log in, you will also need to specify a host name. Contact your administrator to find out what connection parameters you should use to connect (that is, what host, user name, and password to use). Once you know the proper parameters, you should be able to connect like this:
shell> mysql -h host -u user -p
Enter password: ********
host and user represent the host name where your MySQL server is running and the user name of your MySQL account. Substitute appropriate values for your setup. The ******** represents your password; enter it when mysql displays the Enter password: prompt.
If that works, you should see some introductory information followed by a mysql> prompt:
shell> mysql -h host -u user -p
Enter password: ********
Welcome to the MySQL monitor. Commands end with ; or \g.
Your MySQL connection id is 25338 to server version: 5.1.22-rc-standard
Type 'help;' or '\h' for help. Type '\c' to clear the buffer.
mysql>
The mysql> prompt tells you that mysql is ready for you to enter commands.
If you are logging in on the same machine that MySQL is running on, you can omit the host, and simply use the following:
shell< mysql -u user -p
If, when you attempt to log in, you get an error message such as ERROR 2002 (HY000): Can't connect to local MySQL server through socket '/tmp/mysql.sock' (2), it means that that MySQL server daemon (Unix) or service (Windows) is not running. Consult the administrator or see the section of Chapter 2, Installing and Upgrading MySQL that is appropriate to your operating system.
For help with other problems often encountered when trying to log in, see Section B.1.2, “Common Errors When Using MySQL Programs”.
Some MySQL installations allow users to connect as the anonymous (unnamed) user to the server running on the local host. If this is the case on your machine, you should be able to connect to that server by invoking mysql without any options:
shell> mysql
After you have connected successfully, you can disconnect any time by typing QUIT (or \q) at the mysql> prompt:
mysql> QUIT
Bye
On Unix, you can also disconnect by pressing Control-D.
Most examples in the following sections assume that you are connected to the server. They indicate this by the mysql> prompt.
oh:
