JazakAllah.. thanyou for your kind words.
For a muslim women to get divorced is very difficult, certainly it is Allah's test but I have felt people look at you as used goods. Even when I posted my message I felt no one replied maybe thinking I was just being judged.
For a muslim women to get divorced is very difficult, certainly it is Allah's test but I have felt people look at you as used goods. Even when I posted my message I felt no one replied maybe thinking I was just being judged.
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Aslamu Alikum.
Sorry to hear about your divorce. I will do dua for you. I hope you feel better.
Sorry to hear about your divorce. I will do dua for you. I hope you feel better.
Sorry brother I didn't mean anything like that, I also had no idea that majority of the people on this forum are teenagers because some of the issue discussed here are on a certain level..if you don't mind me asking are you also a teenager?
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I would think so..though I am not sure sister.
Thankyou anyway for your kindness brother, you see this is the first time I have ever become a member of a forum so i really didn't know what to expect. I do apologise for discussing my personal issues but I felt I should share what I am suffering in case anyone has been through a similar experience as me. I did try and join some other forums but there was no sucess. Once again thankyou to all.
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I think some are teenagers like me, though I can't really tell. :/
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:welcome: aboard sis...
I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward. Thomas Edison
Now, I have had a friend of mine divorce at age 16, she married at 14, I couldn't believe she married at 14 and couldn't believe she divorced at 16.. she went on to marry again and have children.. divorce happens sis.. just close that chapter of your life and move fwd. insha'Allah..
p.s a few months back in March, I boarded an airplane with a newly wed Saudi woman who was escorting her husband's casket.. he died on their honey moon.. la 7wala wla qiwta illa billah.. she was also pregnant and was facing an uncertain future by herself..
imagine how horrible that is? she was also incredibly patient I admired her strength May Allah swt reward her for her patience ..if everyone learned of the trials and tribulations of others we'd probably think we were so blessed in comparison.. pls don't let a minor event like this this get you down.. we all have something in our closet that we'd like closeted but we shouldn't hide as well.. then we'd miss out on living..
I am not discouraged, because every wrong attempt discarded is another step forward. Thomas Edison
Now, I have had a friend of mine divorce at age 16, she married at 14, I couldn't believe she married at 14 and couldn't believe she divorced at 16.. she went on to marry again and have children.. divorce happens sis.. just close that chapter of your life and move fwd. insha'Allah..
p.s a few months back in March, I boarded an airplane with a newly wed Saudi woman who was escorting her husband's casket.. he died on their honey moon.. la 7wala wla qiwta illa billah.. she was also pregnant and was facing an uncertain future by herself..
imagine how horrible that is? she was also incredibly patient I admired her strength May Allah swt reward her for her patience ..if everyone learned of the trials and tribulations of others we'd probably think we were so blessed in comparison.. pls don't let a minor event like this this get you down.. we all have something in our closet that we'd like closeted but we shouldn't hide as well.. then we'd miss out on living..
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