[AnonymousPoster]

If you do not sleep with with your husband within first 3 months, are u islamically not married??

 

[Mikayeel]

Thread approved

 

[chacha_jalebi]

this thread put a smile on my face

ofcourse your married once the nikah is done capiche!

 

[IbnAbdulHakim]

^ you mean a time had existed where a smile was absent from your face

*oh:*


and i agree with chacha, im pretty sure celibate marriages exist for long periods till the circumstances are correct.

 

[AnonymousPoster]

Is there any evidence.... theres alot of people saying in Islam the nikah is invalid if there is no physical relationship within 3 mnths..

 

[Snowflake]

^asalam alaikum, you could ask them to bring evidence.

other than that, i've not heard that this situation makes a nikah invalid. Sometimes a nikah takes place (can't remember the term used) but for some reason the couple cannot live together, e.g. ppl still who are still studying. They continue to live with own parents until they are ready for the responsibilities of marriage. That can be until any length of time and it certainly does not invalidate a nikah. Allahu alim.

The only thing that comes to mind is when a marriage has not been consumated and divorce follows, there is no idah period to be observed. (Can provide proof if you like). But again no mention of the three month period anywhere.

 

[Ibn Abi Ahmed]

Is there any evidence.... theres alot of people saying in Islam the nikah is invalid if there is no physical relationship within 3 mnths..

The Messenger sallalahu alayhi wasallam married Ayesha r.a. when she was 7 and consummated the marriage 2 years later when she was 9. Ask them what their evidence is for that opinion and then ask a scholar for a final ruling Insha'Allaah.

 

[Re.TiReD]

http://www.islamicboard.com/advice-support/53454-first-night-marriage.html