I feel horrible and depressed about those who are oppressed. In Islam we are always told to forgive. So we forgive, but the person who harms others? I mean I get and understand whats the point of being angry. Its better to forgive and not be angry. But at the same time, those who do seek justice...they never get it. They make dues and dues against the oppressors...but in reality the opposite happens. I thought Allah would surely never reject the duas of the oppressed. I understand the wisdom of forgiveness and decided to implement this but I can't help but think that why was it that when I made duas against someone that it never came true? Why was it that whatever I asked for my oppressor to be dealt with, the opposite happened. I asked for them to be afflicted with heth issues, they are super healthy. I asked them for no success...they got successful. I asked for them to never get married...they got married very soon. This person was a horrible person...yet each and every one of my duas was rejected? I understand there is respite given to oppressors but the dua of the oppressed never is rejected. I obviously do not care about that person anymore and decided to forgive them. But I want to know the wisdom of why Allah didn't accept those duas?
Please answer
seriously?
i remember reading that the early adopters of islam were considered the harshest by the non believers.. from the quran but obviously i probably wont be able to find it if i look again.
and with todays understanding i grasp it as a concept.
the world is a cruel place, people put forward in word and action without any intent of losing.
for a long time a person can live with allah swt as the protector the sustainer, the provider, the planner.
..but then you come to war, the hand that always takes away from you, the people around you unaware of what they put forward or introduce into your life.
and then its a rigged game of mismanagement.
being poked and then asked to write for yourself..
the only thing a person has is patience and steadfastness, minimizing the damage you cause to yourself.
i havent heard the voice of god really.
but i do hear it.. id consider myself crazy but im not the one obeying it.
but if the shoe was on the other foot and you were the one that was successful and married and anything else that the wicked have, you would sure want to protect your life and what was yours.. maybe you would be considered as the one that was evil.
so you have to see your argument from a different perspective.
..and learn to put forward differently.
maybe one day your innocent and then the losses they suffer will be comparable to yours.. if thats what you want.
i just want to go back to a time when the only voice in my head was my own. im no good at this game.. although im sure i used to be.
but yeah, i suppose i have chosen the way i want to play it.
putting forward today for judgement tomorrow.. or just trying to get through today would be fine lol.
for a long time a person can live unaware of what he is or what he does, it dont mean nothing until it means something to you.
and then your playing.. although life is no game.
its like dreaming about a fast car for years and years and years, then you finally get it and realise you only drive the speed limit and maybe it attracts more attention than you want.. so strange.
all i ever do is avoid potholes on the road! ..although i suppose people have said it was lowered.
