salamualikum.
^ ever heard of lowering ya gaze then? i mean yes it's hard but if you sincerly LOVE allag subhwnatallah then am sure you can do anything for him.
How can ya love the dude whithout doing anything? i mean like getting to know him still you talk to him which is a sin!
If your that desperate then GET MARRIED IN TEH ISLAMIC WAY INIT!
Ma'assalama