people can be so horrible :(

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:sl: why cant be people be happy when someone starts practising fully?
i am so upset last night i heard my mum and her friends saying that the reason i wear the jilabab is for fashion, that is fake.
i am 17 this ladies are all over 40, y cant they be happy? why is my own mum against me? :cry: :w:
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Erm .... wat?!>? If dat was moi, I wud seriously go and give da woman a pieace of my mind!! :rant: (not ya mum her m8)
 
lol dont wry, i've also heard the famous "burn that bush, terrorist, wahhabbi etc etc etc" all part of the struggle for the truth i think

wallahu allam

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Asalamu Alaikum Sis,

You have nothing to worry, at least not from your Mom anyway... Her resistant is only temporary...

I do advise you to talk to your Mom about whatever is on your mind... It's better for the relationship between you and your mother.

She will understand... and soon defend you against any attacks from others.

Just a matter of time... no worries :)

May Allah keep you steadfast in Islam, Ameen.

W'salaam,
Hamid
 
Salam sis
Believe me there are sooo many girls who go through the same thing - and it hurts terribly coz you expect ypur family to help you through thick and thin. But remember - you wont always get the support that you need in life. You wont always get it. You have to make dua and give yourself a pep talk - you have to create the strength within yourself to be strong and keep firm.

Sis, they only say stuff to you because there knowledge many be quite limited and they dont know the wisdom behind everything Allah has told us to do. Now, what you have to do, is keep calm. Keep calm. Dont try to answer her back with words or anything. Hear her out, then just say 'ok' and walk away. Take it in one ear and let it out the other, dont take any notice. Tell yourself they probably dont know much and feel guilty because they are old and are not covering properly.
You must be determined - dont give up on yourself. You're worth it and so is every other girl/woman.

Hope that helps a bit. I know I went through similar things with my parents and it wasnt easy - things even got physical...now that was scary. You gotta do what you gotta do sis. Allah loves you and he will reward your patience.

Peace
 
in cases when the parents are muslims, my guess is that on some level, they feel guilty that they may not be practicisng their religion properly - and so they feel threatened when their kids do.
 
anonymous said:
:sl: why cant be people be happy when someone starts practising fully?
i am so upset last night i heard my mum and her friends saying that the reason i wear the jilabab is for fashion, that is fake.
i am 17 this ladies are all over 40, y cant they be happy? why is my own mum against me? :cry: :w:
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You sound like you're not up for the challenge. Maybe you don't see what they're doing? They're making you strong now, because they all know that's what the world they're sending you into is really like. They're just getting you prepared for it.

Sounds nuts, but it works ;)

Ninth Scribe
 

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