[littlestarface]

Think this is the right place to post this. Please do not judge me. I know I've done wrong and I regret it.

Just need someone to listen to me and if you could give me advice it would be much appreciated.

I'm 21 years old. I met this guy and have known him for a bit and we went out a few times. He's in the army and he's not a Muslim and he's been completely honest with me. I did stay over at his base.

I think I might be pregnant and I do not want to keep it. I know abortion is against my religion, and so is pre-marital sex, and I regret it a lot.
He's made it clear he wants to keep it if I am. He's 4 years older than me and says he feels ready for a child.

I can't have a child right now. I am a Muslim and he isn't and I know I've done wrong and I feel scared and regret it deeply.

Please just help me.

 

[Muslim Woman]

what can I say sis ? Talk to a Mufti about aborting the illegal child . After studying Islam , if he accepts Islam , then u can marry him .

Offer ur sincere repentance to Allah and in future stay away from major sins like these . May Allah forgives u .

 

[crimsontide06]

I am sorry about your situation but(I will admit this is my biased opinion) please do not have an abortion. A baby is the most wonderful joy in the world, do not kill an innocent life :/

Ask the guy to learn about Islam, he doesn't have to convert but he should know what Islam is, also try and raise your child, Muslim.

 

[Muslim Woman]

he doesn't have to convert but he should know what Islam .

if they want to marry , then he MUST accept Islam . Otherwise marriage will not be valid for the sister .

And Allah Knows Best.

 

[crimsontide06]

if they want to marry , then he MUST accept Islam . Otherwise marriage will not be valid for the sister .

And Allah Knows Best.

I know this, I just did not want to put pressure on her, I assumed that if he did learn about Islam he would convert on his own, over time...depending on how open minded he is.