Q & A's for the Newly Married Couple..

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I won't be needing that for another...oh, 30 or 40 years, but thanks for the link though :D
 
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At the beginning, when i read it - i forgot to see the left hand side of the page - because there are other links there which are to do with the marriage, and answers to some misconceptions people might have about it.

So everyone should check them out too insha'Allaah ta'aala.


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I'm supprised by some of the answers, i was so not aware of some of the stuff on there.
Jazakallah khair for the link br.
 
I hate the whole "the wife must be obedient to the husband" thing. It makes women seem like pets, rather than partners. Don't expect me to be obedient if he is not obedient to me as well.
 
^^ u dont have to obey him in something that he's in disobedience ot Allah

and btw, ur forgetting that you get rewarded for obeying your husband... and it's the rule Allah and his prophet, not a culture thing..
 
lolwatever said:
^^ u dont have to obey him in something that he's in disobedience ot Allah

and btw, ur forgetting that you get rewarded for obeying your husband... and it's the rule Allah and his prophet, not a culture thing..
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I understand, but I disagree with things that make women appear lesser than men. I will do what he asks if he does what I ask...however, he doesn't, so I feel I have no obligation do be "obedient" to him.
 
ps: it doesnt mean that the wife is a slave 2 her hubby lol btw... she sure can disagree and discuss with him and all that.. and he'd be a fool 2not listen and take her seriously and change his mind if she's got a point....

but just like you need a leader in every firm/organisation, there's gotta be a leader in the household, and Allah assigned teh responsibility to the husband... and just like a good leader seeks teh advise and consults the people around him, so should a good husband consult his wife and listen to her valuable advise :)

salamz
 
c'est*moi said:
I understand, but I disagree with things that make women appear lesser than men. I will do what he asks if he does what I ask...however, he doesn't, so I feel I have no obligation do be "obedient" to him.
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well that's a pretty sour marriage innit :rollseyes
 
lolwatever said:
ps: it doesnt mean that the wife is a slave 2 her hubby lol btw... she sure can disagree and discuss with him and all that.. and he'd be a fool 2not listen and take her seriously and change his mind if she's got a point....

but just like you need a leader in every firm/organisation, there's gotta be a leader in the household, and Allah assigned teh responsibility to the husband... and just like a good leader seeks teh advise and consults the people around him, so should a good husband consult his wife and listen to her valuable advise :)

salamz
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Thankfully, I am head of household! I believe the popular saying, "The man may be the head, but the woman is the neck, and she can turn the head any ways she wants."

P.S.- My marriage is good as long as I have the control :)
 
all you have to do is make him think his the boss when in reality its you. am sure sisters know what i mean.
 
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^LOL. I read ya loud and clear sis. ;)

Anyway, a proper Muslim husband would always take his wifes opinion in to consideration in the first place, its his duty to treat her nicely and take care of her, and if he does that and follows the sunnah properly, there wouldnt be any need for the wife be in control and just let her husband think that he is.
 
the prophet saw sed that a woman can enter any of the 8 gates of paradise that she pleases so long as she obeys her husband, reads her 5 n fasts her month.

a womans salah is not lifted from her head if her husband is angry with her.

subhanallah allah has made it so easy for women to enter paradise.
 
i need to ask a question and if any1 has the answer can u reply bak please
 

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