Questions about the Day of Judgment

[Nitro Zeus]

Assalamu alaikum,

I had some theories in past regarding the situation of certain people on the Day of Judgment.

I have read some fatwas or Reports suggesting that if one commits shameful deeds like watching pornography and masturbation. This type of person will be exposed on the Day of Judgment. And then, that partuicular person will be bumiliated in front of everone by Allah(SwT). And this practically makes me worried, because I too can be humiliated on that Day like never before in front of mankind and jinnkind. And I really diskike for my shameful deeds to be exposed on that Day.

My theories are:

1. The wicked Jinns and Humans can make fun of me on the Day of Judgment after, my shamefull deeds are exposed

2. The pious believers among Jinn and Humans will look at me like I'm a freak person.

So, the question is: what does that statement "I'll be humiliated on that Day in front of everyone by Allah means"??

And my mom who is a Orthodox Christian, told me that I should no worry about what others think off me on the Day of Judgment, because that tine, there will be no time for making jokes about one another and everyone will not make fun of you, because thar Day is a serious Day.

Of couse, that is after I have told het my worries of that Day and it's cause of ny worries.

And second question is: what my mom told me about that Day is correct and it is based on Sunnah??

Personally, I have serious issues with those two deeds which I do privately and now it is very difficult to quit doing them. Because, I have I have found them to be quiet tempative deeds. And I don't know how to diminish and cancel the temptation feeling.

Jazakhalakair

 

[Al-Ansariyah]

Walekumassalam
Whether your sins will be exposed or kept hidden, it totally depends on Allah. He will forgive whomever He wills and punish whomever He wills. If the person is a believer then there's a more chance that his sins won't be exposed to everyone.

(Bukhari 2441)Narrated Safwan bin Muhriz Al-Mazini: While I was walking with Ibn `Umar holding his hand, a man came in front of us and asked, What have you heard from Allah's Apostle about An-Najwa? Ibn `Umar said, I heard Allah's Apostle saying, 'Allah will bring a believer near Him and shelter him with His Screen and ask him: Did you commit such-and-such sins? He will say: Yes, my Lord. Allah will keep on asking him till he will confess all his sins and will think that he is ruined. Allah will say: 'I did screen your sins in the world and I forgive them for you today', and then he will be given the book of his good deeds. Regarding infidels and hypocrites (their evil acts will be exposed publicly) and the witnesses will say: These are the people who lied against their Lord. Behold! The Curse of Allah is upon the wrongdoers. (11.18)
And yes your mother is correct. Everyone will be busy thinking what will happen to them. Nobody will care about anyone. When even a mother won't speak for her child, you yourself imagine the severity of the day. Wallahi, it's terrifying. I would recommend you to read juz 30 as it has events which will occur between starting and ending of judgement day.

P.S. Don't expose your sins to anyone. Avoid being alone. Leave them asap before it's too late.