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Quotes from ebook: How to be an Alpha Male, Husband, and Dad - the Islamic way.
This ebook is getting popular and many people want to see quotes from it before reading it fully. Here's a brief summary of its chapters and some quotes from the ebook:
Chapter 1: How to be a Male.
This chapter explains that a Man has to work on himself and build himself (physically, mentally and spiritually). He makes himself into a strong man, so he who will be a great role model for his wife and kids.
Quotes:
"You -the man- have to become the solid block without holes in, you have to gain the ability to make wise, final decisions."
"You (the boy) have to turn into a healthy, strong Man, who has a cause. You have friends who can help you with skills, and their families give you and your family a fun (halal) social life."
Chapter 2: Your role as a husband and Man in the relationship
Quotes;
"Man decides the "No's" in the family culture:"
"Desperation turns women away:"
"The man guides, the woman follows her man. Man has to give the vision, and the woman perceives
life through his vision, and she supports him achieve that vision."
Chapter 3: What if she doesn't like my rules??
Quotes;
"Women obey men naturally, they are made this way."
"If she did leave the marriage and ran away with the kids, then they will return back to you in the future. They want to see how their dad looks like."
Chapter 5: Divorce
Quotes;
"Throughout your marriage, the thought of divorce should never come across your mind. Even in an
argument or joke, you never even mention divorce."
"When she says 'divorce me', she does not want you to divorce her. She wants you to be a superhero and
fix a long term problem"
"A woman might stay with a bad man.
But she will never stay with a weak one. So eat meats and go to the gym."
Chapter 6: How to raise good children?
Quotes;
"Be a good, friendly dad more than a strict one."
"Children and wives are a copy of the man in the home, they will do everything they see you doing."
"You cannot be so strict that they turn to others instead of you for advice."
Chapter 7: Frequently Asked Questions:
Question 1: Phones and Social Media Accounts, should I allow my wife to have these?
Answer:
a famous guy (not celebrity, but a semi-famous rapper) banned his girlfriend from her phone because she used Instagram when he had told her not to. So she did not use it for a month.
Why was he successful in this without her running away from him for being 'too controlling'?
It's because he was a cool guy (healthy, fit, famous, had money.) She did not want to lose a guy like this. So she felt it was in her best interest to obey him and stay in the relationship.
Question 2:
What if she doesn't let me see her phone?
Answer: If she prevents this, it is acceptable for you to marry again, or to divorce if this is causing severe stress for you.
"You have to be so (physically and emotionally) strong, that if she left you, you would be able to marry again straightaway, without any worry. This strong attitude is what will attract her to you, to stay with you."
Question 3: What if I'm a weak man, Should I apply these Alpha male rules in my marriage?
Answer: No. Until you upgrade your ownself (it's mentioned how you can do that in chapter 1), your wife won't respect you. She can't trust you and your rules unless you are a strong man. So work on yourself, build your respect and trustworthiness - then she will obey you herself willingly.
These are some quotes from the book. If you want to read more. Get the full ebook free:
eBook: How to be an Alpha Male, Husband & Dad (the Islamic way)
Read Online (45pages):
https://www.slideshare.net/Linguist...-islamic-way-by-that-muslim-dudepdf-257394190
Download (1mb):
https://archive.org/download/e-book...the Islamic way - by that Muslim Dude (1).pdf
https://tinyurl.com/AlphaMuslimMan2
This ebook is getting popular and many people want to see quotes from it before reading it fully. Here's a brief summary of its chapters and some quotes from the ebook:
Chapter 1: How to be a Male.
This chapter explains that a Man has to work on himself and build himself (physically, mentally and spiritually). He makes himself into a strong man, so he who will be a great role model for his wife and kids.
Quotes:
"You -the man- have to become the solid block without holes in, you have to gain the ability to make wise, final decisions."
"You (the boy) have to turn into a healthy, strong Man, who has a cause. You have friends who can help you with skills, and their families give you and your family a fun (halal) social life."
Chapter 2: Your role as a husband and Man in the relationship
Quotes;
"Man decides the "No's" in the family culture:"
"Desperation turns women away:"
"The man guides, the woman follows her man. Man has to give the vision, and the woman perceives
life through his vision, and she supports him achieve that vision."
Chapter 3: What if she doesn't like my rules??
Quotes;
"Women obey men naturally, they are made this way."
"If she did leave the marriage and ran away with the kids, then they will return back to you in the future. They want to see how their dad looks like."
Chapter 5: Divorce
Quotes;
"Throughout your marriage, the thought of divorce should never come across your mind. Even in an
argument or joke, you never even mention divorce."
"When she says 'divorce me', she does not want you to divorce her. She wants you to be a superhero and
fix a long term problem"
"A woman might stay with a bad man.
But she will never stay with a weak one. So eat meats and go to the gym."
Chapter 6: How to raise good children?
Quotes;
"Be a good, friendly dad more than a strict one."
"Children and wives are a copy of the man in the home, they will do everything they see you doing."
"You cannot be so strict that they turn to others instead of you for advice."
Chapter 7: Frequently Asked Questions:
Question 1: Phones and Social Media Accounts, should I allow my wife to have these?
Answer:
a famous guy (not celebrity, but a semi-famous rapper) banned his girlfriend from her phone because she used Instagram when he had told her not to. So she did not use it for a month.
Why was he successful in this without her running away from him for being 'too controlling'?
It's because he was a cool guy (healthy, fit, famous, had money.) She did not want to lose a guy like this. So she felt it was in her best interest to obey him and stay in the relationship.
Question 2:
What if she doesn't let me see her phone?
Answer: If she prevents this, it is acceptable for you to marry again, or to divorce if this is causing severe stress for you.
"You have to be so (physically and emotionally) strong, that if she left you, you would be able to marry again straightaway, without any worry. This strong attitude is what will attract her to you, to stay with you."
Question 3: What if I'm a weak man, Should I apply these Alpha male rules in my marriage?
Answer: No. Until you upgrade your ownself (it's mentioned how you can do that in chapter 1), your wife won't respect you. She can't trust you and your rules unless you are a strong man. So work on yourself, build your respect and trustworthiness - then she will obey you herself willingly.
These are some quotes from the book. If you want to read more. Get the full ebook free:
eBook: How to be an Alpha Male, Husband & Dad (the Islamic way)
Read Online (45pages):
https://www.slideshare.net/Linguist...-islamic-way-by-that-muslim-dudepdf-257394190
Download (1mb):
https://archive.org/download/e-book...the Islamic way - by that Muslim Dude (1).pdf
https://tinyurl.com/AlphaMuslimMan2