really need urgent help please

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sister, i dont know what ur husbands fears are but him being scared of u making friends is a bit much. youre home alone all day this is enough to drive a person crazy. there is nothing wrong with having friends, indeed friends are beneficial and everyone needs them, if something happens you need people who can help you. does your local masjid have classes for females or something that he cant say 'is wrong'
where abouts in the UK do you live if u dont mind ymy asking. maybe some sisters here might be from around there and can meet you? :)
 
its normal in the early stages of marriage that either one of you might want to avoid the other and stay out all day over time this will change when your husband will start to feel attachment to you and he will not be interested in anything else other then to stay with you because of the fact you are alone and you do not have any friends and you have no classes to go to obviously you will feel like this and i really suggest you buy the holy Qur'an its really not a good thing not to have one in your home.

it should always be there by your side to pick up and read when ever you feel like your going insane and do not neglect salaat!! its one of the most important pillars in islam do not let these problems with your husband take you away from islam not even you own children thats how important Allah should be to you sister seriously its just not right that you go to sleep every night worrying what your husband did and how he made you feel today or that he arrived in late from work.

you should go to bed every night stressing that did you pray on time did you remember Allah reflect on your whole life and how you should change it for the better to please Allah and be more greatful to him. when we make a relationship with Allah. we make a relationship with everyone. we feel relaxed humble no worris and no tension
 
Assalamou alaikoum sisters,

Thank you very much for your help and support and advice , Im very happy because my husband this week start coming early from work and he showed me from his work papers that he worked so many hours because we need money for us and i know that i was stupid thinking bad about him and now im over the moon hamdollah , thanks to Allah SWT and you , I will start pray soon inshallah without stop and i will try to find quran inshallah , but still my husband against me to having friends he said that their husband might bothering me or their brothers he have worries like that anyway i would like to have online friends like you at least i can talk to you online better than nothing , Again thank you very much
 
:sl: Alhamdulillah, Exalted be He Who granted you peace after your distress. Thank and worship Him as much as you can inshaAllah sister.

Assure your husband that you will have nothing to do with your friends' husbands or any male relatives, but that it is not normal for a person to be stuck alone on their own day in day out. A change now and then is necessary as we shouldn't be extreme in any situation .There is simply no need to invite friend's with their husbands to your home or to invite your friends when your husband's at home. Explain this to your husband, inshaAllah and ask Allah to give him understanding and to be kinder to you.

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Scents of Jannah said:
:sl: Alhamdulillah, Exalted be He Who granted you peace after your distress. Thank and worship Him as much as you can inshaAllah sister.

Assure your husband that you will have nothing to do with your friends' husbands or any male relatives, but that it is not normal for a person to be stuck alone on their own day in day out. A change now and then is necessary as we shouldn't be extreme in any situation .There is simply no need to invite friend's with their husbands to your home or to invite your friends when your husband's at home. Explain this to your husband, inshaAllah and ask Allah to give him understanding and to be kinder to you.

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I agree with what SoJ sis said.. i cannnot tell you how GLAD i am to know that you are HAPPY!.. Now now thank Allah for giving you this moment of happiness.

t anyway i would like to have online friends like you at least i can talk to you online better than nothing
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Sure there are many sisters on the forum who would be glad to help you out :)
 
Asslamou alaikoum warahmatou Allah Taala wabarakatou,

Thank you very much for you all for your nice supporting words , Im very happy hamdollah THANKS SO MUCH TO ALLAH SWT
 

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