sad.. n confused

[Snowflake]

Assalamu Alaikum,

I dont get it, your in love with a girl? so why did you marry another? due to culture? sorry but that sounds stupid, are you with the girl you love? if your not then maybe you shouldve waited a little while till you got over her then get married to whoever but you didnt, you made that choice to marry her, if you were concerned about the way she would feel and knew the way you would go about with her then you wouldnt have married her, you shoot yourself in the foot then you moan about the bullet, does that make sense? sorry i dont mean to be rude but thats how i see it.

JazakAllah

asalam alaikum wr wb,

I doubt that in the circumstances the bro had to marry this girl, i.e. family pressure, he was even able to process the consequences of what he'd agreed until the dust had settled. Respect to him for at least showing concern about his wife's feeling, albeit later. He must have some sort of conscience, otherwise he would've just brought her over and treated her like crap without worrying about hurting her.

I don't see how anyone can get into anyone's head to see what was going on when they made certain choices. So for that reason, it's unreasonable to think that the reason why someone did something was unreasonable.

wa alaikum asalam wr wb

P.S. The bro said: "mesin lol.. just gota get used to it n that init" So inshaAllah just make duaa for him, cuz he sounds safe mashaAllah.

 

[AnonymousPoster]

families bak from pak.. i dno when she's supposed to come though. got more time to get prepared for the future insha Allah.


Allah answered my prayers alhamdulillah in the past, He'll help again, i know of it. i probably just posted this thread wen i was lower in eman.. now things are better alhamdulillah.


jazak Allah for the support everyone

 

[Snowflake]

families bak from pak.. i dno when she's supposed to come though. got more time to get prepared for the future insha Allah.


Allah answered my prayers alhamdulillah in the past, He'll help again, i know of it. i probably just posted this thread wen i was lower in eman.. now things are better alhamdulillah.


jazak Allah for the support everyone

asalam alaikum wr wb,

woohooooo! MashaAllah bro. That's awesome! InshaAllah Allah will help you this time too. May Allah make your marriage bright and happy. Ameen.


wa alaikum asalam wr wb.

 

[AnonymousPoster]

oh yeh, i just wna say to all those guests who are reading this.. if you're in a similar situation (you proli are, thats why you're checkin it out) - pray to Allah, cuz if you been wronged - then He's gna respond to u insha Allah.. since the prayer of the person who's been wronged goes to Allah like lightning speed, and He will respond to u, even if it takes a little while.

 

[anonymous]

oh yeh, i just wna say to all those guests who are reading this.. if you're in a similar situation (you proli are, thats why you're checkin it out) - pray to Allah, cuz if you been wronged - then He's gna respond to u insha Allah.. since the prayer of the person who's been wronged goes to Allah like lightning speed, and He will respond to u, even if it takes a little while.

awwww mashaAllah bro mashaAALLAH!:thumbs_up:thumbs_up

 

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families bak from pak.. i dno when she's supposed to come though. got more time to get prepared for the future insha Allah.


Allah answered my prayers alhamdulillah in the past, He'll help again, i know of it. i probably just posted this thread wen i was lower in eman.. now things are better alhamdulillah.


jazak Allah for the support everyone

:salamext:

This post has made my day (Well...afternoon lol)